Luther073082
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- Apr 1, 2007
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I must say I'm a little concerned. . . EVERYONE in your family seems to agree with your parents on this. And they give valid reasons, such as anger.
Can you tell us more about his anger. . . or at the very least how your parents have come to see him as an angry person?
I mean sometimes parents don't like the person we are dating because they are over protective or they don't want you getting married this early for whatever reason or because of where this person comes from. And I can get that sometimes you can't be ruled by your parents when they have an invalid reason for disliking him...
But the person having a problem with anger is a very valid reason for not wanting you to marry him. And before I say. . . ok go ahead and don't worry about your parents feelings on the matter, I want to know that their impression of him is wrong.
And that's esspecially true when your extended family is trying to tell you to listen to your parents.
I have a big family, I have like 14 cousins on my dad's side along, 5 natural (genetically related) aunts and uncles plus all of their spouses and my grandmother is still around. . . I can not possibly imagine marrying someone when both of my parents, my brother, and all of my aunt's, uncles, and cousins telling me not to marry them.
Can you tell us more about his anger. . . or at the very least how your parents have come to see him as an angry person?
I mean sometimes parents don't like the person we are dating because they are over protective or they don't want you getting married this early for whatever reason or because of where this person comes from. And I can get that sometimes you can't be ruled by your parents when they have an invalid reason for disliking him...
But the person having a problem with anger is a very valid reason for not wanting you to marry him. And before I say. . . ok go ahead and don't worry about your parents feelings on the matter, I want to know that their impression of him is wrong.
And that's esspecially true when your extended family is trying to tell you to listen to your parents.
I have a big family, I have like 14 cousins on my dad's side along, 5 natural (genetically related) aunts and uncles plus all of their spouses and my grandmother is still around. . . I can not possibly imagine marrying someone when both of my parents, my brother, and all of my aunt's, uncles, and cousins telling me not to marry them.
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