After all this time, I have had some interesting thoughts about the baptism in the Spirit and tongues.
I didn't see this clearly before, but Peter said to the crowd on the Day of Pentecost, "These things you see and hear..." What did they see and hear? Tongues!
When Cornelius and his household were baptised in the Spirit, how did Peter know that? They spoke in tongues!
How did Paul know that the Ephesian disciples got baptised in the Spirit? He heard them speak in tongues and magnify God.
So, in all the examples of the Holy Spirit falling on people, tongues were what was observed before anything else. There are no references in Acts where tongues did not accompany the baptism in the Spirit.
It is also interesting that when I counsel people through to the baptism in the Spirit I use the following steps (you see I believe in pre-counselling people first to ensure that they are using their faith and not seeking some sensory experience)
I sit them down in a quiet place and take them through these steps:
1. Do you believe it is God's will for you to receive right now? If yes, confess it by saying "I believe that it is God's will for me to receive the baptism in the Holy Spirit right now.
2. Ask for Him to come into your life. The way we get things from God is to ask Him. By prayer and supplication make your requests known to God. Pray out loud (confession again).
3. Receive the Holy Spirit into your life. If we pray for anything that is the will of God for us (and we established that in point 1), then He will give it to us. All we need to do is to receive it. Confess: "I now receive the Holy Spirit into my life."
4. At this point you are baptised in the Holy Spirit. How do you know that this has happened? Because the Word of God says so! You may not feel a thing, but your faith is not aligned to feelings but the Word of God. The Word says that if an evil father knows how to give good gifts to his children, how much more does the Father know how to give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him. You asked, you received. It is as simple as that. Now confess it!
5. "I believe that I am now baptised in the Spirit. Thank you Jesus!"
Once you have done that, you may start experience love, peace, joy, or any other manifestation, and this is okay because the manifestation is following your Scripture based faith.
6. But that's not all! You can now speak in tongues!
I believe that faith needs to be activated for tongues to flow. This means we don't just stand there with our mouths open hoping that somehow the Holy Spirit will vibrate our speech faculties. How can he? He is a Spirit! He has entered our spirit. Then how can we speak in tongues?
(Be careful that the devil does not defeat you at the post by manifesting something like the gift of tongues as some type of force that takes over your speech. This is not faith, because faith is a choice to believe God's Word. If your speech faculties are taken over and placed out of your control then this violates faith and therefore is a counterfeit.)
Faith in God's word means that we have to do something. If I went through the steps of faith to be converted, what do I do next? I get baptised. That is a choice I make on the basis of my belief in God's Word. It is an act that shows the world that I believe I am saved. That is the purpose of baptism, to activate my faith that I am saved.
To activate faith, I have to do something. With the gift of tongues, I then have to deliberately make up a language that I believe is the gift of tongues and that God understands it.
The difference between speaking nonsense and a language that God understands is my faith. What do I believe I am doing when I am making up the language. I believe that I am speaking in tongues. What happens is that often there is a flow of a beautiful language that comes out of a person when they activate their faith in that way. I have seen it happen time after time. Even though I get them to repeat some words in my tongue, they are quickly speaking their own unique language when they get the idea of how to activate their faith.
"Experience-based" theology hates this way of activing faith. But that thelogy is faith in feelings and manifestations and not in God's written Word. God always honours faith in His Word, and I have seen that demonstrated many times.
But I have more error and counterfeit when people have tried to get a manifestation, or frustration when they have waited and waited for some force to take over their speech and induce them to speak in tongues without any effort on their part.
The devil hates tongues, and He will do all he can to countefeit it. But he cannot counterfeit anything when a believer uses his faith in God's Word.
Faith says, I believe, I ask, I receive, I confess, now I can speak in tongues and I am now going to start speaking!
If you do not have the gift of tongues and want to receive it, you can follow these steps in the privacy and quiet of your own room. You don't have to wait for a hyped up atmosphere of a church meeting. You don't have to wait for anyone to lay hands on you, although laying on of hands for the baptism in the Spirit is quite Scriptural, as long as you accept the laying on of hands in faith and base your faith on the Word of God as I have said. The laying on of hands can be a help to your faith, especially when the person laying his hands on you is a trusted ministry, proven to impart genuine spiritual gifts.
So, after all that, I teach that receiving tongues is an essential part of receiving the baptism in the Spirit, and is the best indication that you have, in fact, received it. Without the gift of tongues, your faith in that you have received the baptism may drain away when the devil starts to bring doubts to your mind about it, as he will.
But receiving the gift of tongues, and being able to speak a fluent, beautiful language that you know could not be coming from just you, is a great way of maintaining your faith that you are baptised with the Spirit and that the Spirit is moving in and through you. Tongues is also the first stepping stone to using the other gifts.