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I've been pondering this question for the last two weeks but was unable to find the answer. Can anyone tell me how to be religiously tolerant and fully devote myself to God? If I am tolerant that means I leave room for other beliefs, and that means I am not fully Christian.

What should I do, and if this has been mentioned before, can someone direct me to a previous topic?

God Bless.
 

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Welcome to the forums Indonesianpalmtree! :wave:

I wonder what you really mean by "religious tolerance"? We must be loving towards people of other beliefs or no faith, but we should NOT go along with their false or anti-Christian views, or join in their worship. Is there a specific person or situation you are dealing with, or is this a general question?
Blessings, Susana.
 
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indonesianpalmtree said:
I've been pondering this question for the last two weeks but was unable to find the answer. Can anyone tell me how to be religiously tolerant and fully devote myself to God? If I am tolerant that means I leave room for other beliefs, and that means I am not fully Christian.

What should I do, and if this has been mentioned before, can someone direct me to a previous topic?

God Bless.
To be tolerant is not to be accepting of something. You can live with the fact that its not going to change anytime soon, but still pray that God would give you the strength to pull through it. Christ does call us to be tolerant of the messed up world we live in. But he never once said to accept the things the world does as truth. There is a MAJOR line between being tolerant, and believing in something. My friend can start to drink, i will have to tolerate it, but thats doesnt mean I have to start drinking. I know better than to do that. Does that help?
 
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BGS hit the nail on the head. To "tolerate" something does not mean to "approve" it. It just means that you accept its existence and don't go around trying to get rid of it. For example, I tolerate spiders--I accept their right to exist and make thousands of little spider babies--but I don't like them one bit--I don't approve of them or the fact that they want to live in my house.

IMHO, if you truly want to live a life devoted to God and Jesus, you must be tolerant of others' beliefs--you must love everyone as you love yourself and God, no matter what they believe. That is not at all the same thing as agreeing with, or approving of, their beliefs. And you can continue to share the Word with them, but (again, my opinion) you should do it though the way you live your life. As St. Francis of Assisi put it, "Go and preach the Gospel. Use words if necessary."
 
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We can be tolerant of other people and their beliefs... but how does one be tolerant regarding lies?

1 + 1 = 2

Should I be tolerant (accept) of the idea that 1 + 1 = 10?
(I suppose it is if you are using binanry)

Some people push the "tolerance" to an extreme.

If I believe that Jesus is the Christ, I cannot be tolerant (accept) the idea that He is not. If you say He is not, I will tell you that you are wrong. Is this being "intolerant"? I guess I am.

Tolerance does not mean that you drop your beliefs just so you can get along with others. It does not even mean you admit your beliefs might be wrong.

I can and do get along with anyone regardless of their beliefs. Just do not ask me to deny mine as an act of "tolerance." If they do not like by beliefs... then they are the ones who need to be tolerant!:wave:
 
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I just came back from a youth-group, and also asked this question. What my close friends replied to was the same as all of you said. The thing was, I had a problem with confronting someone, when I know in my heart that they are wrong. It is a slap in the face to tell someone that, but how do you do it without invoking them to use a melee device on me or refuse my truth? Should I leave it up to God, should I only drop the seed into the soil?

I also needed some quotation from the Word, and to my utter stupidity forgot about this:

1Co 9:20 And unto the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews; to them that are under the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law;
1Co 9:21 To them that are without law, as without law, (being not without law to God, but under the law to Christ,) that I might gain them that are without law.

I did also find this:

2Co 10:4 (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
2Co 10:5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;
2Co 10:6 And having in a readiness to revenge all disobedience, when your obedience is fulfilled.

Is this contradictory or out of context with my interpretation?

By the way, I'm glad to join this forum :wave: . I've been lurking on one other trying to spread the gospel to others, but multiple obstacles came up. I need a munitions dump, if you will. I find that although there are other Christians on that forum, I am also influenced by the doubt of the many athiests on the forum.

Thanks!
God bless you all!
 
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indonesianpalmtree said:
I just came back from a youth-group, and also asked this question. What my close friends replied to was the same as all of you said. The thing was, I had a problem with confronting someone, when I know in my heart that they are wrong. It is a slap in the face to tell someone that, but how do you do it without invoking them to use a melee device on me or refuse my truth? Should I leave it up to God, should I only drop the seed into the soil?
Greetings IPT,

1 Cor 3:6-7 I have planted, Apollos watered; but God gave the increase. 7 So then neither is he that planteth any thing, neither he that watereth; but God that giveth the increase.

Please remember these verses when you are giving your testimony:

Revelation 12:11 And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.

Hebrews 12:14 Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord:

and of course Jesus words and example:

Luke 9:51-56 And it came to pass, when the time was come that he should be received up, he stedfastly set his face to go to Jerusalem, 52 And sent messengers before his face: and they went, and entered into a village of the Samaritans, to make ready for him. 53 And they did not receive him, because his face was as though he would go to Jerusalem. 54 And when his disciples James and John saw this, they said, Lord, wilt thou that we command fire to come down from heaven, and consume them, even as Elias did? 55 But he turned, and rebuked them, and said, Ye know not what manner of spirit ye are of. 56 For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.

Blessings,

Dad Ernie
 
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indonesianpalmtree said:
I've been pondering this question for the last two weeks but was unable to find the answer. Can anyone tell me how to be religiously tolerant and fully devote myself to God? If I am tolerant that means I leave room for other beliefs, and that means I am not fully Christian.

What should I do, and if this has been mentioned before, can someone direct me to a previous topic?

God Bless.

No. It means you live the gospel message which is to love others as God loves you and to do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Just love others regardless of what they believe. When you are asked, then given an account for why you believe.

It’s all in God’s hands you can not convert, only He can. If you love others as Christ loves you- that He laid down His life for you- this is how they will know you are His disciple.

The pagans in the early Church were converted by the love of the Christians- not by rubuking their beliefs. "See the Christians, how they love one another."
 
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I believe that God decided to overwhelm me so much with all the answers I've heard today that cannot even imagine what I felt like before. Luckily, that is what is great when walking your path Him, every day is a learning experience.

I just want to add on a side note that I never intended you to think I don't love these folks I'm talking about, I really do. It's their beliefs I find wrong, not them, but the dilemma was to tell them about the real truth and hearing whether they would listen, disagree or reject. I guess we are only the sowers, He is the life.

Even if this person hates me for 50 years, it will keep scratching until hopefully God decides to infiltrate

God bless, and thanks to all who listened!
 
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indonesianpalmtree said:
I believe that God decided to overwhelm me so much with all the answers I've heard today that cannot even imagine what I felt like before. Luckily, that is what is great when walking your path Him, every day is a learning experience.

I just want to add on a side note that I never intended you to think I don't love these folks I'm talking about, I really do. It's their beliefs I find wrong, not them, but the dilemma was to tell them about the real truth and hearing whether they would listen, disagree or reject. I guess we are only the sowers, He is the life.

Even if this person hates me for 50 years, it will keep scratching until hopefully God decides to infiltrate

God bless, and thanks to all who listened!

St. Francis of Assi said, “Preach the gospel at all times, only use words when necessary.”
 
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