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... and it was dealt with. However, the things mentioned here go unchecked.
That is the problem.

Well, unless things are reported not much will happen. That's the point.

I can easily say from experience, its not that hard. It takes little time from one's real life, and as long as you stay impartial the majority will back you up. Occasionally, the rabid hate-patrol goes out of whack, but mostly the general populace sees those individuals for what they are, which makes the mod job much easier.

Everyone will hate you at one point or another, this is true... but it always blows over, and it is never more than one or two at a time.

While a mod I thought it was tough... but after leaving the position, I realized it was a pretty easy job overall.

True to a point, but not the experience of everyone, especially since you have left the team we have had to deal with a lot of changes in the systems and rules.
 
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To clear this up- I don't think it is ok to badger other believers- but I've been around long enough to know that it happens. I'm not a moderator of the whole of the forum, just little bits. Whatever happens over there I cannot do much about- it is up to individuals involved to report posts they don't like. We merely moderate, we do not rule over.
Usually, over there I see pandering. For example, Orthodox mods watch out for the Orthos... the Catholic mods watch out for the Catholics, ect. While most of the time they do well, the times they fall apart are when they watch out for their own kind. And, well... since the Jews don't have mods of like kinds... well... no "special" protection is granted.

I don't think the problems are widespread, but there certainly are rough patches for those of us who wonder outside of the MJ forum.
 
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Well, unless things are reported not much will happen. That's the point.
No, that's not the point. You see, the FEW times I've seen Jews verbally assault someone here, they usually get dealt with.... before a report is even made. If a Jew dares break character, no report need be made, the mods are on top of it in a flash. It needn't even be taken that far.

The same is NOTreturned in kind.



But, beyond that, all too often I've seen antisemetic drivel go without correction, even with reports made.
 
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Which is just what I said to try and defuse the situation and I got a fairly naf response from the staff in my view!

I was merely encouraging the complainant to report the matter if they didn't like it - that was ALL I said about it - which is exactly what you are now saying. I didn't knock the staff and I didn't assume that any one member of the staff should be responsible for any one thread so I am at a loss to know why I got the naf reponse.

OK...fine- it didn't read that way, that's for sure.

Understood then.

I could have done without what I saw as sarcasm though.

No it was not a take on John Cleese (I do not know his work well enough to do that) and I am NOT a pommie!

You're not a pom? LOL :) But you use the word "naf"! Do you just live there?

Are you being fair dinkum?

Please do not add insult to your other naf comments. If you do not want me on the Forum then say so - it's your call.

Nah...I love having you here. You're the among best posters- I love you! You should think about that and ask yourself if you were being fair to my words.

Please tell me (and others on this thread) in how many posts I have actually attacked the staff - I an intrigued that you keep records or even bother to count such trivial things.

Nah....let's not go there. It's off topic and it's not worth our time. You're alright here and good to have around.

If being a Moderator means you have to address people in this way then, thanks for the invite but I'll let it pass - I couldn't cope with my conscience in having to do the job.

So, it's ok to be sarcastic and smart but not direct and honest? C'mon- don't play the victim card when it's not needed. You did initiate this in sarcasm my friend. Perhaps next time you could address my comments without it perhaps? No one likes that, do they?
 
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Usually, over there I see pandering. For example, Orthodox mods watch out for the Orthos... the Catholic mods watch out for the Catholics, ect. While most of the time they do well, the times they fall apart are when they watch out for their own kind. And, well... since the Jews don't have mods of like kinds... well... no "special" protection is granted.

I don't think the problems are widespread, but there certainly are rough patches for those of us who wonder outside of the MJ forum.

OK...if it happens, take it up with someone who can deal with it. It couldn't hurt, and I would be interested in what happens.

No, that's not the point. You see, the FEW times I've seen Jews verbally assault someone here, they usually get dealt with.... before a report is even made. If a Jew dares break character, no report need be made, the mods are on top of it in a flash. It needn't even be taken that far.

The same is NOTreturned in kind.



But, beyond that, all too often I've seen antisemetic drivel go without correction, even with reports made.

As above....act if you may, but if you get nowhere, let someone else know. The posters shouldn't have to tolerate bias from the staff- the rules should be the guidelines.

Anyway- best to get back on topic.
 
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Errrr - what was the OP about again? :D
non messianic jews who frequent the forum... um... that's about all I remember... something about people coming out of the woodwork to fight in thread battles maybe? too long ago.
 
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Errrr - what was the OP about again? :D

non messianic jews who frequent the forum... um... that's about all I remember... something about people coming out of the woodwork to fight in thread battles maybe? too long ago.
Typical family...can't remember what we were arguing about to begin with! ^_^
 
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baiting?

Sometimes I offend people when I don't mean to, but I certainly don't bait


No, you neither offend people here, nor do you bait :)


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Errrr - what was the OP about again? :D
Actually it was about Lulav putting her foot in her mouth again by trying to do something nice and the thread breaking off in ten different directions before I could get it out and apologize for starting it! :eek::sigh::swoon:Oy!
 
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:doh: duh, never mind. worm on hook.


**scratching very blonde head :scratch:


My very feeble attempt a little humor.
worm...hook....baiting.............never mind..... ;)
 
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