Time to focus on the good points.

Wren

Well-Known Member
Dec 19, 2006
13,843
2,416
PNW
✟33,144.00
Country
United States
Faith
Presbyterian
Marital Status
Married
I'm smart. Having an intelligent discussion wouldn't be difficult, especially if it's involving social issues. I can be serious, but I also have a quirky, goofy side.

I'm short, which some guys like--makes them feel manly and protective. It also gives them plenty of opportunities to tease me.

I'm a good listener, supportive, compassionate.

I'm independant (i.e., not clingy and needy), although that could be a deal breaker for some *shrugs*
 
Upvote 0

Tinkerbell33

Well-Known Member
Feb 24, 2007
15,955
751
✟34,871.00
Marital Status
Private
I'm smart. Having an intelligent discussion wouldn't be difficult, especially if it's involving social issues. I can be serious, but I also have a quirky, goofy side.

I'm short, which some guys like--makes them feel manly and protective. It also gives them plenty of opportunities to tease me.

I'm a good listener, supportive, compassionate.

I'm independant (i.e., not clingy and needy), although that could be a deal breaker for some *shrugs*

I was going to write a post decribing my good qualities but I think I will just quote this and use this as my answer. ^_^

Edit: I am going to add a few things
.

- I work out, go for a run everyday and take care of myself.
- I hardly ever drink...virtually tee total but I think its okay to have one or two drinks to socialise.
- I don't smoke.
- I don't take drugs.
- I look after myself and take care with what I eat i.e have herbal teas, water, no fizzy drinks, don't have takeaways.
- I am a vegetarian with a huge heart for animals and humans.
- I am forgiving.
- I am generous.
- I love to try new things and learn.
- I am good at cooking.
- I love video games, especially shooting games like Call of Duty.
- I am open minded and willing to be flexible on certain issues.
- I have learnt from the mistakes my parents made :p.
- I am adventurous, love activities like climbing.
- I am helpful and supportive.
- I am selfless at times :p.
- I am not a typically girly girl, so don't spend ages doing hair, makeup and choosing an outfit to wear so I will probably be ready to go out on time.
- I am low maintenance...but I still would like to be treated once in a while.
- I am spontaneous but I have some sense.
- I am honest.
- I like to clean.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: Thunder Peel
Upvote 0

Gwendolyn

back in black
Jan 28, 2005
12,340
1,647
Canada
✟20,680.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Private
Aww yay, a positive thread. :D

I am very devoted when I care about someone. I also encourage open communication (with tact and consideration) - if we cannot trust each other enough to tell each other things that upset and bother us, then we should not be in a relationship. I am capable of having constructive conversations without flying into rages or making personal attacks :p I acknowledge that the LEAST constructive thing to do when in an argument is make personal attacks.

Those are the main ones.
 
Upvote 0

mina

Brown Eyed girl
Sep 26, 2003
37,260
4,054
in the South
✟115,511.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Married
I'm sweet, kind, thoughtful and loving.
I love the Lord and try to live an authentic faith.
I'm a good cook.
I want to add good to my SO's life.
I don't live for drama.
I'm a good listener.
I like doing special things for people I love.
I have very pretty eyes.
I have a fun and good sense of humour.
I know lots of random information about many different topics and think i'm pretty interesting.
I am playful.
I workout.
parents love me
children are drawn to me.
I am very pro communication.
I can leap tall buildings in a single bound.
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

Windmill

Legend
Site Supporter
Dec 17, 2004
13,686
486
33
New Zealand
Visit site
✟38,797.00
Faith
Christian Seeker
Marital Status
In Relationship
What qualities, talents, etc do you have that you think a SO might appreciate?

I thought I would make this thread to counterbalance the negativity of the deal breaker one.
I'm intelligent

I am in no way clingy

I'm very open-minded

I am OK at video games!

I try and make an effort to get involved in the things my SO is interested in so I can talk with them on it and what-not :)

I am very devoted.

I have a sense of humor.

I am shortish but not weird-short.

I am low maintenance

I am supportive.

I am not demanding.

I an independent and like going dutch and don't want money spent on me :)

So yes... I think that I am a pretty good catch :clap: :p
 
Upvote 0

Pyrogenesis

Weapons Grade
Feb 7, 2005
693
130
42
Snells Beach
✟1,484.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Single
I do my best to live "by honour and for glory" and think that Chivalry is something that should be aspired to by all good men.
I've been told that I'm strong and safe; women apparently feel comforted and safe when I'm around.
I like to make people feel special, like they're worth something. Silly little things like waiting up till 2am so I can have a hot chocolate ready when my friend came home.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tinkerbell33
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums

Gwendolyn

back in black
Jan 28, 2005
12,340
1,647
Canada
✟20,680.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Private
Hehe, I'm intelligent, too. Can't believe I forgot that one... I'm fairly philosophical. I crave intelligent conversation - "How was your day?" "Good." "What did you do?" "Work." Isn't going to fulfil me ;) lol

I also love video games and most forms of geekery! Bring on the geeks!
 
Upvote 0

nbiol

Well-Known Member
Site Supporter
Aug 18, 2004
9,711
356
35
✟11,708.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
Politics
US-Others
Well, I'm pretty much awesome :D ;)




J/k.

-I love learning
-I have a broad sense of humor. I can do everything from dry sarcasm to complete nut in the span of 2 seconds ;). Oky...well, I can do any humor.
-I love everything about music and would offer to teach my S.O lessons for free ;)
-I'm not looking for flings. I want a real relationship.
-I'm more than willing to submit, trusting that he has my best interests at hand. [Mind you, this does not mean that I'll lie down and let him stomp all over me. I'm not a doormat ;)]
-I can be loud/outgoing and also quiet/withdrawn. I can go from crazy to thinker pretty quickly. I know when to reign in and when it's okay to be loud ;).
-I'm a fairly good judge of character upon meeting someone and choose my friends carefully.
-I like to debate but know when to step out for the sake of both people.
-I'm a romantic at heart.
-I love God.



And therefore, all of you chasers must inquire God for my hand in a relationship before you ask me. Mk, pumkin? ;)
 
Upvote 0

Stravinsk

Neo Baroque/Rococo Classical Artist
Mar 4, 2009
6,153
797
Australia
✟9,955.00
Faith
Other Religion
Marital Status
Politics
US-Libertarian
  • To someone whom I love and am committed to, I am faithful, even in sickness, even after death
  • If a woman doesn't make this difficult when I am with her, I am sensitive
  • I can be a good listener - but have my limits :p
  • I love animals
  • I'm fairly intelligent and educated even though I have no formal degrees
  • I've been told by some I'm an awesome composer/musician, by others that I am fair or merely talented
  • I would share everything I had, materially and personally, with a woman whom I know has a good character, is faithful, has tenacity and commitment to our relationship
  • I've been told I am a good lover
  • I eat well and excercise and am generally in good health despite a few vices (smoking/drinking)
  • I like children when they aren't being little selfish snots :D
  • Barring issues I may be dealing with, time doing study or writing notes on a stave, I'm generally a fairly social person.
 
Last edited:
Upvote 0

Apollo Celestio

Deal with it.
Jul 11, 2007
20,734
1,429
36
Ohio
✟36,579.00
Faith
Christian Seeker
Marital Status
Single
Politics
US-Green
I'm intelligent or at least intellectually curious.
I'm fairly independent, meaning I won't try to make you look bad so others will accept me.
I live for God. I belong to him and plan to go into ministry.
I can probably protect you.
I'd be pretty faithful, and well I'd probably not be after your body, but all that is you.
 
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums
J

Jerimi

Guest
I am a kind heart
Lost Romantic
Polite
Proper
Gentlmen like
I have been told that I am extremely intelligent
I will make you think
I am empathic to a degree
I genuinly care about others around me
I am a great listener
I make good money
I enjoy little surpises for no reason
I always remember important dates
I love being active but can enjoy a good night at home
I am stubborn (it can be a good thing.... right? :p)
If I have never tried something I am always willing to do so without argument or fight

That's really all I can think of.
 
Upvote 0

lostaquarium

Quite flawed
Dec 23, 2008
3,105
394
London
✟20,072.00
Faith
Christian
Marital Status
Private
I'm saved.
I believe the Bible and all the wisdom that comes with it; so that I'm not perfect but constantly working towards improving.
I'm easily pleased.
I love to laugh.
I have a lot of interests and I'm endlessly curious about new things.
I'm clean and tidy. I cook. Just about.
I'm patient.

That made me feel a lot better! Thanks, Becky! :D
 
  • Like
Reactions: Tinkerbell33
Upvote 0

ecuison

Servant of Christ, Father, Protector
Nov 6, 2006
409
27
45
Southern, California
✟15,664.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Private
I've been told by other women who know me that I am a great father. Some of them told me they haven't seen someone love a child so much as well as provide so much for their well being.

I've also been told that I am a great provider and that having my life together, well some what in my eyes, is a great trait as a lot of guys they have come across don't have.

I guess when I look at myself, I am loyal. Loyal in a sense that when I was married, my obligations and duties were to my family. Whether it was out working to make sure we have our mortgage and bills paid, to making sure they were safe and their future is secured.
 
Upvote 0
This site stays free and accessible to all because of donations from people like you.
Consider making a one-time or monthly donation. We appreciate your support!
- Dan Doughty and Team Christian Forums