- Feb 19, 2017
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I'm 26 years old and I have never once been in a romantic relationship with someone. A lot of people would maybe feel ashamed to admit that, but today I am choosing to look upon this fact with thankfulness. I have had crushes on people throughout my life, but nothing ever came of these crushes. Either the feelings were unreciprocated or there were roadblocks to me ever dating anyone. Thus, I have never been in a romantic relationship.
I used to feel bad about this and think that something was wrong with me. I prayed to God for a spouse every day, but I think that my singleness is but a blessing in disguise. You see, if I had gotten into a relationship with someone anywhere prior to this point in my life, I believe that I would have gotten mixed up in a lot of negative experiences, especially because I always had crushes on toxic individuals. Not only that, but having the peace and quiet of being single helped me to have enough stability to focus on God.
Maybe someday I will find someone who I will marry, but until then I'm not going to make myself feel bad for not wanting to be in a romantic relationship. There's nothing wrong or lesser about having platonic friendships instead, and besides, those are the kinds of connections that will really enrich our lives if we choose our friends wisely.
I used to feel bad about this and think that something was wrong with me. I prayed to God for a spouse every day, but I think that my singleness is but a blessing in disguise. You see, if I had gotten into a relationship with someone anywhere prior to this point in my life, I believe that I would have gotten mixed up in a lot of negative experiences, especially because I always had crushes on toxic individuals. Not only that, but having the peace and quiet of being single helped me to have enough stability to focus on God.
Maybe someday I will find someone who I will marry, but until then I'm not going to make myself feel bad for not wanting to be in a romantic relationship. There's nothing wrong or lesser about having platonic friendships instead, and besides, those are the kinds of connections that will really enrich our lives if we choose our friends wisely.