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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Time for a change

I have been guilty of making personal attacks during this debate. I'm sure many of you sympathize with my reasons: still, a reason is not always a justification, and in this case it is not.

I offer my apologies to Nick Petreley, a frequent participant in this board. Nick, I apologize for calling your credibility into question. I apologize for speaking derisively to and about you. You are aware, of course, that I strongly disagree with your position, and also with your habits of presentation. Nevertheless, my attacks on you were uncalled for. In the future, I will be sure to engage you in a civil and respectful manner if at all. I will limit my criticism to the points of argument or assertions of fact that you or others bring to this board.

In this way, I hope to avoid sullying my own credibility and to work toward a better standard of conduct in public discourse.

This does not mean that I will let a falsehood, deception, or contrivance go unanswered where such comes to my attention and it is in my power to answer it. It does mean that I will answer the point, not the point-maker.

My apologies to all on the board for my behavior in the past on this matter. If I should post something in the future that does not reflect the sentiments I express in this post, I hope that I will have it brought to my attention.

Jerry
 

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Originally posted by Jerry Smith
I have been guilty of making personal attacks during this debate. I'm sure many of you sympathize with my reasons: still, a reason is not always a justification, and in this case it is not.

I offer my apologies to Nick Petreley, a frequent participant in this board. Nick, I apologize for calling your credibility into question. I apologize for speaking derisively to and about you. You are aware, of course, that I strongly disagree with your position, and also with your habits of presentation. Nevertheless, my attacks on you were uncalled for. In the future, I will be sure to engage you in a civil and respectful manner if at all. I will limit my criticism to the points of argument or assertions of fact that you or others bring to this board.

In this way, I hope to avoid sullying my own credibility and to work toward a better standard of conduct in public discourse.

This does not mean that I will let a falsehood, deception, or contrivance go unanswered where such comes to my attention and it is in my power to answer it. It does mean that I will answer the point, not the point-maker.

My apologies to all on the board for my behavior in the past on this matter. If I should post something in the future that does not reflect the sentiments I express in this post, I hope that I will have it brought to my attention.

Jerry

Wow. It takes a lot of guts to come out openly and say that. It's appreciated. As Christians, we will always forgive you, Jerry, no matter what is said or done, because God has already forgiven us infinitely more.

Now, I have a quick question: What is this Evolution thing? :) I keep hearing it about the place, someone told me it's the name of a Pearl Jam song? Is that right?
 
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