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Time for a change

I have been guilty of making personal attacks during this debate. I'm sure many of you sympathize with my reasons: still, a reason is not always a justification, and in this case it is not.

I offer my apologies to Nick Petreley, a frequent participant in this board. Nick, I apologize for calling your credibility into question. I apologize for speaking derisively to and about you. You are aware, of course, that I strongly disagree with your position, and also with your habits of presentation. Nevertheless, my attacks on you were uncalled for. In the future, I will be sure to engage you in a civil and respectful manner if at all. I will limit my criticism to the points of argument or assertions of fact that you or others bring to this board.

In this way, I hope to avoid sullying my own credibility and to work toward a better standard of conduct in public discourse.

This does not mean that I will let a falsehood, deception, or contrivance go unanswered where such comes to my attention and it is in my power to answer it. It does mean that I will answer the point, not the point-maker.

My apologies to all on the board for my behavior in the past on this matter. If I should post something in the future that does not reflect the sentiments I express in this post, I hope that I will have it brought to my attention.

Jerry
 

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Originally posted by Jerry Smith
I have been guilty of making personal attacks during this debate. I'm sure many of you sympathize with my reasons: still, a reason is not always a justification, and in this case it is not.

I offer my apologies to Nick Petreley, a frequent participant in this board. Nick, I apologize for calling your credibility into question. I apologize for speaking derisively to and about you. You are aware, of course, that I strongly disagree with your position, and also with your habits of presentation. Nevertheless, my attacks on you were uncalled for. In the future, I will be sure to engage you in a civil and respectful manner if at all. I will limit my criticism to the points of argument or assertions of fact that you or others bring to this board.

In this way, I hope to avoid sullying my own credibility and to work toward a better standard of conduct in public discourse.

This does not mean that I will let a falsehood, deception, or contrivance go unanswered where such comes to my attention and it is in my power to answer it. It does mean that I will answer the point, not the point-maker.

My apologies to all on the board for my behavior in the past on this matter. If I should post something in the future that does not reflect the sentiments I express in this post, I hope that I will have it brought to my attention.

Jerry

Wow. It takes a lot of guts to come out openly and say that. It's appreciated. As Christians, we will always forgive you, Jerry, no matter what is said or done, because God has already forgiven us infinitely more.

Now, I have a quick question: What is this Evolution thing? :) I keep hearing it about the place, someone told me it's the name of a Pearl Jam song? Is that right?
 
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