1. What do you want written on your tombstone?
I've never really given this much thought, truth be told. In all honesty, it really doesn't matter to me
what it says. The tombstone is only for those left behind, and whatever would bring those that I love comfort, I guess that would be fine. If I
had to choose something myself, offhand, I guess I'd have it quote Phil. 1:21: For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain, with a notation under it that says, "Truly living, at last!"
2. What do you want said at your funeral?
I don't want a funeral, I want a celebration of life. Seriously, I've talked about this very thing with my family, and when it comes to this, I don't want an open casket, just pictures and such. Actually, no casket, since I want to be cremated. I don't want any semblance to a traditional funeral. I want people to tell the funny things that they remember, the blessings of our relationships, etc. If people get emotional and sad, I want those that love me most to comfort them and be of good cheer to them.
Mostly, at this celebration of life, I want everyone present to hear the gospel, and I want them to know that I am truly not dead, but alive with the One who created me. Death is not any means of an end, but rather just a doorway that we all must pass through in order to have the fullest life imaginable.
I don't want much, eh?!
3. What don't you want said at your funeral?
That it's a funeral. It's to be a celebration of life, and I want people to see and hear that it is just that.
Good questions, actually...I had to stop and really think about the first and third one for a bit, though I already knew what I wanted for number 2.
Blessings, HITR