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three morbid questions?

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paulnoel said:
1..What do you want written on your tombstone?

2..What do you want said at your funeral?

3..What don't you want said at your funeral?

I do not see this as morbid.
1. I am not sure.
2. I just want tons of music, I want laughter. Tell my most embarassing stories!
3. Nothing mean or negative.
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paulnoel said:
1..What do you want written on your tombstone?

2..What do you want said at your funeral?

3..What don't you want said at your funeral?
1. She knew the Lord Jesus
2. YOu can know Him too!
3. She is with the Lord because she was baptized as a baby.
 
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paulnoel said:
1..What do you want written on your tombstone?

2..What do you want said at your funeral?

3..What don't you want said at your funeral?



1.) She loved and was loved by her Lord and Savior.

2.) She worked quietly and unnoticed in the trenches, not seeking her glory but His.

3.) anything about any thing accomplished or done by me or anything in an effort to create an aura of 'good' about me.


I feel privileged to serve a sovereign God, creator, owner, maintainer of the universe! Its not about me! Its all about Him!
 
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Uphill Battle said:
1) "I told you I was sick"
2) "he lived well."
3) I didn't think it would KILL him!

I really love these,LOL! But guess family would be pretty miserable reading those,and we are all on good terms, SOOO-
1) The one she loved wanted her with Him
2)you could see Jesus in her
3)please not my most embarrasing moments,they are already a family joke!



Such questions sure can make you think,Paul.:thumbsup:
 
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1. What do you want written on your tombstone?

I've never really given this much thought, truth be told. In all honesty, it really doesn't matter to me what it says. The tombstone is only for those left behind, and whatever would bring those that I love comfort, I guess that would be fine. If I had to choose something myself, offhand, I guess I'd have it quote Phil. 1:21: For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain, with a notation under it that says, "Truly living, at last!"

2. What do you want said at your funeral?

I don't want a funeral, I want a celebration of life. Seriously, I've talked about this very thing with my family, and when it comes to this, I don't want an open casket, just pictures and such. Actually, no casket, since I want to be cremated. I don't want any semblance to a traditional funeral. I want people to tell the funny things that they remember, the blessings of our relationships, etc. If people get emotional and sad, I want those that love me most to comfort them and be of good cheer to them.

Mostly, at this celebration of life, I want everyone present to hear the gospel, and I want them to know that I am truly not dead, but alive with the One who created me. Death is not any means of an end, but rather just a doorway that we all must pass through in order to have the fullest life imaginable.

I don't want much, eh?! ;)

3. What don't you want said at your funeral?

That it's a funeral. It's to be a celebration of life, and I want people to see and hear that it is just that.

Good questions, actually...I had to stop and really think about the first and third one for a bit, though I already knew what I wanted for number 2.

Blessings, HITR
 
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