Okay, for the sake of argument, let’s say that 2 Peter 3 is talking about the time immediately before the second advent. On what basis do you link it to the events in Matthew 24?
Ill give that a shot though you weren't asking me that.
Matthew 24:35 Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away.
Now compare with some of 2 Peter 3.
2 Peter 3:10 But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the works that are therein shall be burned up.
11 Seeing then that all these things shall be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy conversation and godliness,
12 Looking for and hasting unto the coming of the day of God, wherein the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat?
Both accounts involve something passing away, that being this present heavens and this present earth. But let's don't stop here since that is not all both accounts have in common. Does not this passage say the DOTL will come as a thief in the night. Where else have we read about anything or anyone coming as a thief? In Matthew 24, of course.
Matthew 24:42 Watch therefore: for ye know not what hour your Lord doth come.
43 But know this, that if the goodman of the house had known in what watch the thief would come, he would have watched, and would not have suffered his house to be broken up.
But there is even more that connects these accounts.
1 Thessalonians 5:2 For yourselves know perfectly that the day of the Lord so cometh as a thief in the night.
1 Thessalonians 5:4 But ye, brethren, are not in darkness, that that day should overtake you as a thief.
5 Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.
As to the following, this is also something Jesus expanded on in Matthew 24 as well.
1 Thessalonians 5:7 For they that sleep sleep in the night; and they that be drunken are drunken in the night.
Compare with.
Matthew 24:48 But and if that evil servant shall say in his heart, My lord delayeth his coming;
49 And shall begin to smite his fellowservants, and to eat and drink with the drunken;
Which then results in this.
Matthew 24:50 The lord of that servant shall come in a day when he looketh not for him, and in an hour that he is not aware of,
51 And shall cut him asunder, and appoint him his portion with the hypocrites: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Which then is meaning this.
1 Thessalonians 5:3 For when they shall say, Peace and safety; then sudden destruction cometh upon them, as travail upon a woman with child; and they shall not escape.
But let's just ignore the fact that Jesus wasn't simple-minded about things, and let's just interpret the OD in a vacuum and have it all involving those unbelieving Jews in the first century. Let's just blame everything on them. Let's pretend professed servants of Christ, the ones Matthew 24:48-51 are pertaining to, that this is meaning unbelieving Jews in the first century, or that it's just meaning the lost in general even though the text makes it crystal clear, IOW, context, that it is meaning professed servants of His.
Jesus in Matthew 24, and Paul in 1 Thessalonians 5, are teaching that those within the NT church are going to be held accountable for evil things they are doing while He is away, but let's just ignore that fact and interpret the OD in a manner which hides this fact rather than brings it to light. And not only do Preterists do that via their interpretation of the OD, so do some futurists as well, and not just meaning Pretribbers.