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This dream I had?

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Hello I would like to hear some view on this dream I had about eight years back now. I remember very clearly because I wrote it down as soon as I woke up. Every single detail. So this one night I had my ego/feelings hurt by this girl who seemed to be using me to get back at her boyfriend. We was suppose to go out for Valentine's Day but she broke the news saying she was using me. So that night I laid in bed feeling hurt. Then I asked God, closing my eyes. "Please God, give me a dream of who I will marry. It hurts so bad." And yes I was crying... . So the next week still hurting. I had a dream this woman her face. She had purple eye liner, purple lipstick, blonde hair, and a mole upper lip. She was looking up at me wearing a wedding bail(I believe that's what it's called) I wrote the details. Down. Now, here's the part that freaked me out. Three years ago I met this woman thin my best friend cousin. He was in the navy just got out coming home. With his new girlfriend(see where I am going with this?) my best friend Steve called me over his house. I arrived I walk in first thing I see and feel...is a girl wearing nothing BUT purple...eye liner mole on her upper lip...blonde hair her smiling was the same as in the dream. The feeling of such huge déjà vu came over me that instant. And feelings something pure came over me. I never had such feelings for someone. Long story short, it turned out our feelings were opposite. Should I continue? And sorry if the layout seems disordered typing this out though my iPad.
 
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Wow. The dream part is interesting, and being sure the girl you met is the same girl from the dream... that's intense. I don't want to get into whether or not the dream was legitimately God-given. It may have been, but it might not have been. You know your relationship with Christ and you're going to be the person who can best assess whether a dream is communication from God, or the product of an emotional day where you ate too much three-day-old pizza just before bed.

That said, there's a very common sense approach to handling this. A relationship is nothing you can force, even if God Himself appeared before you and told you that's the girl you're going to marry. Sounds like you had some feelings for this girl, and she clearly didn't feel the same way. Off to a rocky start, but that really doesn't matter. Odds are you wouldn't marry within a week of meeting even if you both felt love at first sight. Marriage could take place decades after meeting someone.

So you met this girl and had this exchange three years ago?? Do you have any information about more recent interactions with her? With what you've given us so far, it's really hard to say what you should do right now. All else being equal, just live your life, man. Continue to seek a deeper relationship with God, keep moving forward. Make Jesus Christ the focus of your life, not finding a romantic relationship.

God wants to be the #1 focus of your life, yesterday, today, and tomorrow. More important than your job, more important than your friends, more important than your wife and kids. Guard your time with Him jealously, and everything else will fall into place.
 
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I believe when we think some information that might be from Yahweh that we can asks Him for wisdom (James 1:5), guidance (Psa 32:8), confirmation (Acts 9;9-19 especially v 10-12; II Cor 13:1), and counsel from fellow believers (Prov 11:14) which you're doing.

Definitely agree with Isaiah on "God wants to be the #1 focus of your life, yesterday, today, and tomorrow. More important than your job, more important than your friends, more important than your wife and kids. Guard your time with Him jealously, and everything else will fall into place."
 
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Honestly I feel like it wasn't a coincidence. Why would She be wearing purple make up first met her? And the déjà vu? I know she has daddy issues p(Emotional ones. The kind makes her sleep with anyone to full that missing void in her life. That only Jesus may fill.) I told her about her. The dream, the feelings. And guess what she got married...to one of her old friends. Obviously it was for lust. I thought about it...maybe he dream was from the devil tricking me? But why would God allow this to happened? Not to mention the got married on Valentine's Day... I know God wants to be first in my life.
 
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Isaiah J said:
Wow. The dream part is interesting, and being sure the girl you met is the same girl from the dream... that's intense. I don't want to get into whether or not the dream was legitimately God-given. It may have been, but it might not have been. You know your relationship with Christ and you're going to be the person who can best assess whether a dream is communication from God, or the product of an emotional day where you ate too much three-day-old pizza just before bed.

That said, there's a very common sense approach to handling this. A relationship is nothing you can force, even if God Himself appeared before you and told you that's the girl you're going to marry. Sounds like you had some feelings for this girl, and she clearly didn't feel the same way. Off to a rocky start, but that really doesn't matter. Odds are you wouldn't marry within a week of meeting even if you both felt love at first sight. Marriage could take place decades after meeting someone.

So you met this girl and had this exchange three years ago?? Do you have any information about more recent interactions with her? With what you've given us so far, it's really hard to say what you should do right now. All else being equal, just live your life, man. Continue to seek a deeper relationship with God, keep moving forward. Make Jesus Christ the focus of your life, not finding a romantic relationship.

God wants to be the #1 focus of your life, yesterday, today, and tomorrow. More important than your job, more important than your friends, more important than your wife and kids. Guard your time with Him jealously, and everything else will fall into place.
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Wow! I dont think I could have said it better myself.......
 
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Another thing I forgot to mention. I didn't want to because may sound silly but I remember the song "White wedding" by Billy idol in the dream. I'm not sure how to explain it. God gives the desire of our right? She was exactly what I was looking for. She loved rock n roll, movies, Disney shows like I did. Except it all toke a hard right turn. Define irony I prayed on valentine's Day for God to reveal who I would married. She gets married on Valentine's Day. I told her about the dream everything. She even posted on her Facebook "changing the future" I didn't tell her I prayed and the dream happened. I thought the dream could be about the woman in the music video but no purple on her. I still keep my faith in God knowing what's best.
 
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