Have you ever heard this "When men have no knowledge of the truth, mountains are mountains and rivers are rivers. When men have a little knowledge of the truth, mountains are no longer mountains and rivers are no longer rivers. When men have full knowledge of the truth, mountains are mountains and rivers are rivers."
(I believe it is a saying from Zen Buddhism.)
So, what you are saying is true, we must understand THE GROUP as its separate parts before we can come to understand it fully-in which case it will become ONE again.
Alright, so we understand how the group behaves, rather than just applying the noun to the existence of, "the group", we understand what it is to be a group...obviously, with a little understanding it seems that the group isn't really a group, it's just a collection of individuals behaving in a set manner- but then we realise that they behave this way for the benefit of the group, and how the many bodies become one whole when they co-operate---- so the "group" is a group again.
But that is like saying, "the universe is the universe....wait, no it's not, there are a series of distinct differences between all these states, places, and beings...the universe is not the universe" then coming to realise later, "however, all of these constituent parts are part of a whole, they all exist together in one location- the universe. All comes from it, and all exists in it....the universe is the universe."
However....
you seem to have taken this a step further.
What you have done, in terms of the Zen quote, is that: "ah yes...I see now, mountains are mountains and rivers are rivers....and rivers are mountains and mountains are rivers as they are one, all is one, as they are part of the universe."
No....ok...listen.
A circuit comprises (example) 5 parts.
A wire, a case, a motor, a bulb and a battery.
Now...all together, these objects make a circuit.
Individually, when taken apart they are NOT a circuit.
Think about it in terms of taking a man out of the universe.
Taking him out of it to some other form of existence does not make the universe any less the universe--- but it does not means that the man remains "part of " the universe.
No...he is not the universe, nor does the circuit become any less a circuit with the removal of the bulb. The motor still works- everything is still connected.
I don't see how you can equate life without words as,
"everything is one."
It's an essentially faulty statement.
What is it grounded on?
What does it seek to prove?
How is it true?
To what does it apply?