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Amen!...in the rear view mirror?
Yes, global cooling---it was all the rage when I was in high school. Everything old is new again.There's an ice age coming.
I'm having a hard time right now.
I had to take Oscar to the vet tonight. He started vomiting bile last night and his breathing became erratic and very hard.
The Vet did some x-rays and pretty much came to the same conclusion I had...he has congestive heart failure and dilated cardiomyopathy. (which is a fancy way of saying that his heart is enlarged and there is fluid filling his chest cavity.) He also has arrhythmia and tachycardia.
So, we started him on some diuretics and heart pills and I'm to watch him until Friday and then call and give the Vet an update. From her tone and directions, I don't think she expects him to get any better. In fact, I think she's trying to get me ready for the worst.
I know that to some, he's "just a cat". I understand that there are people who don't have the attachments that others have to their pets.
But Oscar is my baby. He's been my best friend and constant companion for the last 13 years. I saw him being born. I chose him from the moment he arrived in this world...I am his "mommy". He's my BOY. My Oscarmonster. My baby. *small laugh* Heck, I love him more than I love most people. *g* He sure is sweeter.
And it's not like I didn't know it was going to happen..."someday". I just didn't expect "someday" to be "soon". And I just have the feeling that it's going to be a matter of days instead of the months and years I'd hoped for when this started.
I don't know what to ask for with all of this. I want to ask for prayers that he'll get better. I don't know how some would take that...but...if you all can find it in your hearts...could you pray for him?
And please, pray that, when the time comes, I can make the right decision.
Because it's going to be the hardest thing I'll ever have to do.
Thanks everyone for listening to me ramble on. Love you all bunches 'n stuff!
Kae
Kae,
How is Oscar today?