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seajoy

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...in the rear view mirror?
Amen! :)

I thought Porter lived in Texas----she should be a Texans fan. :D
I used to be a Vikes fan too. I lived there. Fran Tarkenton was great to watch. Losing Superbowls is just too hard on me, though. ^_^ I'm all Packers now. :clap: I just bought myself an authentic Favre jersey yesterday. Man, I'll miss that guy. :sigh:
 
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I'm having a hard time right now. :sigh:

I had to take Oscar to the vet tonight. He started vomiting bile last night and his breathing became erratic and very hard.

The Vet did some x-rays and pretty much came to the same conclusion I had...he has congestive heart failure and dilated cardiomyopathy. (which is a fancy way of saying that his heart is enlarged and there is fluid filling his chest cavity.) He also has arrhythmia and tachycardia.

So, we started him on some diuretics and heart pills and I'm to watch him until Friday and then call and give the Vet an update. From her tone and directions, I don't think she expects him to get any better. In fact, I think she's trying to get me ready for the worst.

I know that to some, he's "just a cat". I understand that there are people who don't have the attachments that others have to their pets.

But Oscar is my baby. He's been my best friend and constant companion for the last 13 years. I saw him being born. I chose him from the moment he arrived in this world...I am his "mommy". He's my BOY. My Oscarmonster. My baby. *small laugh* Heck, I love him more than I love most people. *g* He sure is sweeter.

And it's not like I didn't know it was going to happen..."someday". I just didn't expect "someday" to be "soon". And I just have the feeling that it's going to be a matter of days instead of the months and years I'd hoped for when this started.

I don't know what to ask for with all of this. I want to ask for prayers that he'll get better. I don't know how some would take that...but...if you all can find it in your hearts...could you pray for him?

And please, pray that, when the time comes, I can make the right decision.

Because it's going to be the hardest thing I'll ever have to do.

Thanks everyone for listening to me ramble on. Love you all bunches 'n stuff!

Kae
 
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Kae :hug:

It's not silly to love Oscar as much as you do. I had my girl, Natasha, for close to 19 years. :( The pain is real and love is only as large as our ability to give it, so it's no surprise that you're hurting.

Oscar is a big part of your life and there's nothing to apologize for in admitting that losing him will hurt. Just remember how special you were to him and how much better you made his life, too. He is fortunate to have you as a mommy and I'm certain he knows that. :pray:
 
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Kae I understand. I lost my riding horse a few years ago, she got sick, we took her to the vet and she didn't get over it, we ended up having to put her down, she was my riding buddy.When the vet come out here to put her to sleep, I couldn't go out there and watch. I still hadn't found a horse to replace her, I still makes me sad when I think about her. I still miss her
 
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aw, I'm about to cry. One of the toughest things is the decision to put down a pet. Our kitty wasn't even 5 when we had to have her put to sleep because of a tumor that had taken over her ribcage. It was absolutely horrible for me to do, but it was so peaceful for her.

I'll keep you guys in my prayers, Kae. The Lord will be your strength.

I'm having a hard time right now. :sigh:

I had to take Oscar to the vet tonight. He started vomiting bile last night and his breathing became erratic and very hard.

The Vet did some x-rays and pretty much came to the same conclusion I had...he has congestive heart failure and dilated cardiomyopathy. (which is a fancy way of saying that his heart is enlarged and there is fluid filling his chest cavity.) He also has arrhythmia and tachycardia.

So, we started him on some diuretics and heart pills and I'm to watch him until Friday and then call and give the Vet an update. From her tone and directions, I don't think she expects him to get any better. In fact, I think she's trying to get me ready for the worst.

I know that to some, he's "just a cat". I understand that there are people who don't have the attachments that others have to their pets.

But Oscar is my baby. He's been my best friend and constant companion for the last 13 years. I saw him being born. I chose him from the moment he arrived in this world...I am his "mommy". He's my BOY. My Oscarmonster. My baby. *small laugh* Heck, I love him more than I love most people. *g* He sure is sweeter.

And it's not like I didn't know it was going to happen..."someday". I just didn't expect "someday" to be "soon". And I just have the feeling that it's going to be a matter of days instead of the months and years I'd hoped for when this started.

I don't know what to ask for with all of this. I want to ask for prayers that he'll get better. I don't know how some would take that...but...if you all can find it in your hearts...could you pray for him?

And please, pray that, when the time comes, I can make the right decision.

Because it's going to be the hardest thing I'll ever have to do.

Thanks everyone for listening to me ramble on. Love you all bunches 'n stuff!

Kae
 
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Thank you everyone for the wonderful support and prayers.

Oscar seems to be breathing better today. I gave him another diuretic pill this morning 'round 10 and he's made some more "concrete" in the litter box. :)D) He's currently sleeping in his 2nd favorite spot...behind our "ugly chair".

He slept with me all night last night. We had some good snuggle time and I talked with him and told him how much I love him and that, if he needs to go, it's okay with me. He's been a great buddy and...well...he's my baby.

Thanks again everyone.

Kae
 
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Kae,
How is Oscar today?

He's doing really well! He's fussing at me and being Mister Perky Buns. His breathing is much better and he seems to be feeling really great. *G*

Thanks so much everyone for your prayers 'n stuff! I so need them! (and so does Oscar!)

Thanks for asking, Seajoy!)

Kae
 
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