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Think I'll sit down here for a bit... (4)

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DaSeminarian

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Having suffered from depression, I know some of the feelings that accompany it. It is amazing what I thought and how I perceived others' feelings/thoughts toward me. It isn't always reality, but still real, if you know what I mean.





I know you mean well with the advice, but that first sentence stands out to me as a red flag. I heard it often in my deepest depression; sometimes when I heard someone say that to me, it made me want to crawl into a hole and hide, or respond "If I could snap out of it, I would have... long ago!!!" or both.

I think the rest of your advice is very much on target. Well done. :amen:

seajoy, may God richly bless you. We are your brothers and sisters in Christ, and welcome you always.


In Christ's love,
filo

filo,

I PMd her about it and she was fine with it. I know what you mean though because there is a fine line to walk with people who suffer from depression. Something like this for another person might very well have sent them over the edge. I was reading into Seajoys style of writing when I wrote that and for some reason thought she could handle it. She thanked me in the PM.

Thanks though
Scott
 
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filo,

I PMd her about it and she was fine with it. I know what you mean though because there is a fine line to walk with people who suffer from depression. Something like this for another person might very well have sent them over the edge. I was reading into Seajoys style of writing when I wrote that and for some reason thought she could handle it. She thanked me in the PM.

Thanks though
Scott
Are you talking about me in front of my back? ^_^
 
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seajoy, are things a little brighter today in the new day? I pray it is so for you.
Today is much better, thank you. God has heard the prayers of my friends. I have also been listening to the reminders of what to do to feel better...from my friends. :)

God bless you all. You are some very caring folks. :hug:
 
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Well, hubby just got called out on an emergency fixit job....that another company messed up earlier today. :doh: Poor hubby, always working....now I'm here by my lonesome, just me and the beagle.

I just found out tonight that my husband will be traveling out of state for a few days next week on business. You guys might get pretty sick of me hanging out here for company. :help: :)
 
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Well, hubby just got called out on an emergency fixit job....that another company messed up earlier today. :doh: Poor hubby, always working....now I'm here by my lonesome, just me and the beagle.

I just found out tonight that my husband will be traveling out of state for a few days next week on business. You guys might get pretty sick of me hanging out here for company. :help: :)


You're always good company Seajoy. :hug: I am sorry you will be alone though. I hate being alone. I'm a big baby about that :)
 
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Are you talking about me in front of my back? ^_^

Either that or behind your front. :D

reminds me of a conversation in Music Man between the Mayor and Tommy;

"Have you two been meeting behind my back?" demands the Mayor of his daughter, Zenita.
"Yeah, but we'd rather be meeting in front of your back," exclaims Tommy Cheelas, then looks confused about what he'd said.
"Wha-d-you-mean?" demands the Mayor.
"Uh..." begins Tommy, looking completely flummoxed.
"Never mind," exclaims the Mayor, also looking rather confused, "you just keep away from my daughter! Understand?"

One of the great moments in Hollywood.:D
 
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Bye, everybody, see you next week. We're heading out on vacation tomorrow. Hubby's family is having a big family reunion this weekend & we're headed out a couple days early to help his folks get ready. Tiger's excited about going to Grandma's. It sounds like the farmhouse will be overflowing, so we're going to camp in the yard in a tent. 100 relatives, 2 bathrooms, and a forecast for 95 degrees. BIL's BBQ ribs, corn on the cob, and fireworks in the evening.

My character had to get shoes--they were out of toes, and no bare feet allowed outside at the farm. At least the armor shop still had some sneakers.
 
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Morning Sis,
Hope everyone enjoys the family this July 4th :)

Wish everyone knew what it's really about and that is that "freedom is not free"

Of course for some people it's just another holiday when the amateurs are out getting "snockered".
 
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Morning Sis,
Hope everyone enjoys the family this July 4th :)

Wish everyone knew what it's really about and that is that "freedom is not free"

Of course for some people it's just another holiday when the amateurs are out getting "snockered".


Indeed. Lest remember to thank God for all the folks who serve us and keep our country free. Lest also pray that our govenrment may wake up and see the road we are on is not free. If only we could stick to the ideals of our constitution! :sigh:
 
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