origianlly posted by PureX
I disagree.
Christ (God's spirit made flesh) exists within us all by the fact that we are all the expressions of, and recipients of, God's love because we are part of God's creation.
God's spirit is not within all of us; otherwise, we would all be labeled as Christians. Obviously that is not true. God's spirit is only imputed to us through understanding His salvific works and accepting them by putting your faith in them. Acting in faith on Christ's redemptive works is the only thing that brings God's spirit, Holy Spirit, to reside with us. God's spirit can only be imputed to a believing person that has put Christ's teachings to action.
We are all receipients of God's love. God's love is unconditional, but you can refuse His love and choose not to accept salvation through His Son, Jesus.
Creation is God's spirit expressing itself, and the essence of that spirit is love. However, we are not aware of this divine and loving spirit within our own nature when we are born, physically, and so we wrongly believe that we are here alone, and that our purpose is then only to pursue our own pleasure.
I can agree with your first sentence only because God operates out of love regardless of what He does, but that is not the entire package. Love also brings about some unpleasant outcomes to His failing Creation. Love is not without judgement, justice, and righteousness.
We persue our own pleasure because our corrupted nature leads us away from God. This corruption due to sin, leads us not to do the things of God, but to do the things of man, which mainly results in us doing for our self, as you pointed out.
Being "born again" refers to becoming mentally and spiritually awakened to the true nature of our own existence as both expressions of God's love, and as the recipients of God's love in human form.
Being "born again" refers to our acceptance of Christ, which results in an implantation of part of God's own nature within us that guides us rather than our own human nature. In an overly simplistic way, it is God coming to reside in us and leading us to do His will. Through faith in Christ, He leads us to do what our corrupted nature can not do - obey Him in Spirit. Being born again is an expression of God's love, but not in the way that you see it.
And as we become aware of our own true nature and purpose, we understand that we are not here alone, and we no longer wish live for our own pleasure, but rather for the purpose of giving and receiving God's love.
We don't live to recieve God's love. We live to serve God through obedience to His will and nothing more. The result of obedience to God is the fruits of His grace and mercy upon us which are expressions of His love. Love is not the ends of a mean. Love is not a goal.
At least, this is what I believe is the essential message of Christianity, when viewed untainted by institutional religious bias.
Unfortunately you are being biaed by your approach to understanding. You are taking out of Biblical context and making your own rendition of what the text means. This may give you warm feelings of satisfaction, but do little to help you in your understanding of God and love. You can't transfer the spiritual effect of Christ to outside of the Bible. It will only work within the framework of the message of Christ.