Many of them accept another God(s) with other consequences for not believing. Others don't accept that gods exist. I would further put forth that those who "love" God based on the consequences, do not really love God at all, but are threatened by hell, or greedy for heaven.
Well, people may reject God in favor of false gods, but under what constraints from these gods they may do so is really irrelevant to my point. The only God I'm talking about is the One, True God, Jehovah. And as far as He is concerned, what I have noted about your supposed compulsion to believe holds true.
I don't see how the consequences of choosing for or against God make it impossible to truly love Him. It seems to me you're simply making a general assumption that these consequences must preclude genuinely loving God. As the Bible says, God has given us ample reason to love Him. (
1Jn. 4:17-10). The choice, then, isn't solely between positive and negative consequences, but primarily between recognizing and responding to the love God has for us or ignoring it. There may be some who see only a hell to shun and a heaven to gain, but there are others (myself among them) who are drawn to God because of His love for them. To the latter sort, heaven is only desirable because God occupies it. For these people, God and heaven are one and the same thing. Being as antagonistic to Him as you are this may seem unlikely or even impossible, but I tell you, nonetheless, that it is so for myself and many other followers of Christ.
Because you just told me that God wants us to have a free choice. Once the consequences are offered, the choice isn't just about God, but whether we fear hell or desire heaven. As I said before, can one really say that they love God if they expect positive consequences for doing so?
Yes, I think so. I love my wife dearly and married her, not because I thought it was my duty to do so, or because I wished or expected to live a bitter, miserable life with her, but because I believed that the consequences of acting on my love for her would result in a joyful, fulfilling life with her. Does anyone get married because they hope or expect that doing so will lead
only to misery? Of course not! But does this mean, then, that their love is
completely mercenary or selfish? No, I don't think so (though there is definitely
some selfishness, especially at the start). What I've found is that as my love for my wife has deepened and matured, it is becoming less and less selfish. The ironic thing about this is that as I sacrifice myself for my wife, I gain a sweeter, richer relationship with her. But I had to
grow into this kind of love.
What is true of love in my marriage relationship is also true in many ways of my love-relationship with God. I wouldn't have chosen to relate to a God who was all darkness and danger. I expected that loving God would be deeply rewarding and fulfilling. And He makes promises to me in His Word that it can be. God does not intend that I should embrace Him without positive inducement to do so. He promises that as I walk with Him and in love yield more and more of my life to Him, I will find that I gain a richer and sweeter experience of Him. And so it has been. But I had to
grow into this experience and love of Him.
When I married my wife I knew there was a pretty good chance she would only live for another few years. When she died I was crushed all the same, and it took a long time for me to put myself back together. Much longer than we were together. I loved my wife not for the positive consequences, and despite the negative ones. We don't love someone because of what we get out of it. Why would God be any different?
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I can't imagine (nor wish to) the grief I would feel if I lost my wife.
Not to be callous toward your tragedy, but I don't agree that we love purely for utterly selfless reasons. Did you love your wife because she was a shrieking harridan who made your life a misery? I very much doubt it. I expect there were things about your wife, not least of which was her love for you, that drew you into a marriage with her. What induced you to marry her knowing the terrible sorrow you would soon have to face? Surely it wasn't
only the prospect of that sorrow that drew you together as husband and wife. What made marrying her worth the pain doing so would bring? I'm not trying to suggest your love for her was not deep and true, but you could not have been
entirely devoid of a selfish expectation of good in extending love to your wife.
God has made us to be powerfully motivated by what gratifies and satisfies us. And He approaches us in a way that recognizes this is part of our hard-wiring. As we walk with Him, however, what we come eventually to understand is that the most gratifying and fulfilling experiences of love are encountered as we, in love, turn away from self-gratification. Strangely, in the act of abandoning self-gratification we may find supreme gratification. This is what happens when we follow God's direction in how we seek to fulfill our desires.
Yes, and these reasons make for a much better choice than choosing between heaven and hell. These are actions not contingent on whether we love God. But these are not the ones which get presented for why we should love God.
Often, yes, and it is deeply saddening to me to see that this is so. In the matter of walking with God great numbers of people are appealed to by Christians in entirely the wrong way. God Himself is the reward of salvation, not the golden streets of heaven.
Selah.