Not exactly. According to many Christians, I am destined for Hell simply because of my non-belief.
Well, quite honestly no human except Christ has any say on your spiritual destination, given we have all broken Universal Law, and that even the smallest infraction of this Law warrants spiritual
death. Respectfully, I would ignore where other humans tell you your spiritual destination is,
and honestly find out what God says. There are many parables about haughty religious folk chastising people who they think are going to knock the bottom out of hell, only to find God favors a repentant hell-bent sinner over arrogant self-righteous zealots - in all of their flavors and qualities.
You may be surprise where you end up.
But he doesn't have to. He could break his covenant and risk no punishment as a consequence.
He could, but He didnt, and doesn't.
He even divorced Israel because Israel committed spiritual adultery, and worshiped other gods. This is something He considers a non option - yet He took us back in the form of a new covenant. According to God's own word divorce and remarry in are a serious issue, because if a spouse decides to remarry his or her spouse s/he divorced, then if one of them commits adultery again, then both of them are shamed. (The only God-approved method of divorce under Him is adultery; Moses oversaw "State Writs" to appease the people.) So, God's new Israel is a group that won't turn their back on Him (and shame Him as well as ourselves,) which does mean there is a high degree of exclusivity - by consequence.
Having God manipulate Abraham like that doesn't exactly speak to his goodness. But then again, as you noted, he is under no obligation to be good.
God didn't manipulate Abraham. Abraham was part of a multi-faceted teaching for His namesake: father of many. It was always Abraham's choice on what to do - he could have lied to God about his love for Isaac, or said he couldn't do it.
On The contrary, Abraham had submitted to His will, and was about to kill his son for God, but God saw the intention/heart, knew he loved God more than his son, and
instead decided to give Him a ram to sacrifice. This allowed Abraham as the first covenant holder to be an active participant in prophecy of Redemption. It foreshadowed God's feeling and sacrifice of giving up His eternal Child to keep the relationship He has with His creation. In reverse symmetry, Abraham was willing to give up his mortal child to keep the relationship he had with his Creator. This meeting of intentions between Abraham, Isaac, Christ and God creates a union between the spiritual and physical. Also called doing God's will.
Manipulating Job to make a point also doesn't speak well to his goodness.
Ok, yes Job was manipulated - but by everyone else but God - which is why He was so heated at the end of the book (rightfully so.)
Firstly, the enemy in arrogance has the audacity to tell God he had been spiritually checking out the planet He made for the humans at a spiritual meeting (imagine a board member telling the Chairperson s/he was watching their kids' routine for the past month just because.)
Then, this enemy assert that His creation only cares about God because he does things for them.
After God shows Him Job, and expresses His pleasure with him, the enemy tries to play chess as a novice with a Grandmaster like God - insinuating it is easy for Job to follow Him because Job was rich with plenty of kids and a wife.
God gave permission to let the enemy test job; He clearly knows what will happen. The enemy begs God for more and more permission to torment Job - again,
the Enemy begged God for more permission to torment Job, and God allowed it as long as it didn't kill him.
Job got really low, but never cursed God. As a matter of fact, Job's friends and wife played agency - telling him God was doing this and that, and that God was angry because he had some sin on his soul. God wasn't doing anything; the enemy was. At the end of it all, the point that was much addressing the argument of the OP: cataclysmic things can happen, but it doesn't mean God neither can't prevent it nor that He doesn't love His creation of He does the prevent it. Job was faithful and had his whole livelihood restored.
He also ordered the destruction of entire peoples.
Those peoples were either gargantuan warrior nations and magicians that delighted in the torture, eating and define of Hebrews, or descendants and partakers of those people who continued the same practices. Would you not order your sons to destroy a nation that had not only lyrics taught your sons and daughters depravity in sexton and philosophy, but also broke the bones of your sons for soup stock, ate them, and taught them soul-depleting magick for centuries? At some point, they all have to go - men, women and children... even pets.
He also blamed Adam and Eve for his mistakes, having created them without the ability to morally appraise his commands,
A common thing in Christiandom and contemporary understanding of is is that Adam and Eve were babes. They were not spiritually or scientifically like babies; they were very much adult/mature. Babies are not charged with naming every single animal on a planet (whose Hebrew names are functional meanings, not random - indicating intelligence.) A baby does not get dominion over a planet, and a sky of stars to be used for signs and seasons e.g. agriculture and astronomy. When God told Adam not to eat, He knew Adam had the maturity, spiritual responsibility and intellectual wherewithal to accept the order - and Adam knew he had this too.
and then punished them for having acquired that ability from forbidden fruit that he placed within their reach, fully aware of the outcome that would ensue.
That's right. Just like the angels who fell should have known better - being very very old and intelligent, Adam should have known better being the physic image of the Most High God in all implications. Adam was also fully aware that if he ate the "fruit," he would die.
He chose to entertain creation instead of the creator, so he died. That has been the fact of an ever since: worshiping and entertaining the creation over creator.
Not only did the serpent lie and say they wouldn't die, but Adam and Eve died twice: spiritually and physically. Since they are imperfect, by the time they had kids their kids inherited the imperfection (imperfection does not breed perfection.) Since God knew this was a consequence, Christ and He enacted H.R.G 777: Human Salvation and Redemption Act. This act was already made before creation.