You need to go back and reread some of my old posts. Adam prior to sinning is very much different from God in that Adam does not have Godly type Love (this is man's earthly objective). Adam and Eve are not accepting God's charity as charity, since there is no reason for them to humble themselves to the point of accepting charity (they have not done anything wrong) since God should love them (a wonderful parent's love for an obedient child) they are accepting His Love as a lower form of love (parent for child).
The only way man will humble accept pure charity from God is out of a huge need for charity (sinning). Sin has a purpose.
I don't know where you get your ideas about what the best kinds of love are. But looking at any other relationship we can see, your ideas are completely backwards. The best kind of love is not coerced, but given freely. What you've described is extortion. You say the best kind of love is when we ask for God's love because He made the universe in a way that makes us miserable? Note that I didn't say "God makes us miserable". I worded it in the round-a-bout-indirect way that you're positing.
I would say the best kind of love is the kind you want to give, and not the kind you need to give. If you only love God because He saves you from the world that sucks, then I wouldn't call that love genuine. If you love someone, and you don't need anything from them, and you don't want anything from them, that love is much more genuine.
If my wife and I met because I pulled her from a burning building and saved her life, or if we met, created an honest connection, found we had things in common, worked with each other well, played with each other well, etc. Which sounds like genuine love, and which sounds like love out of obligation?
So it seems fine to me to say that God genuinely loves us, because He doesn't need anything from us. But given your explanation, I can't say that people could genuinely love God because they only do so because of what He'll do for them. Whether that be an eternity in Heaven, or even if it is just solace from the evil world He designed, people don't love God just because they love Him, and that isn't genuine.
I don't know if I'm going to get a direct answer about the chances of God doing evil. You and Hawkins both phrased it, "God isn't going to do something He hates" which just begs the question, "will God change what He hates?". A nice direct, "there is 0% chance God will ever do anything evil" would be clear. So far you guys haven't been clear, and I am wondering if that is intentional or not...