Gods mistakes are numerous, the whole thing about the Garden of Eden, god is everywhere yet he didn’t seem to be around when the devil talked to Eve. God knows everything but he seemed to miss the eating of he apple and later Cain murdering Abel.
God made the world and everything in it, yet shortly after he destroyed it all, including presumably innocent young children, unborn babies, and numerous other innocent people.
God killed Lots wife just for looking at something, if that was true and a deliberate act, then it’s quite shocking.
My purpose is not to say that the god you follow is not a great god, he may well be but what I’m saying is the bible is fallible, and demonstrably so.
Hmmm... I see you have made many wrong assumptions about what I might possibly say about all of this. It indicates that you have been dissatisfied with what others have said, that you have found a pattern, and that you think that pattern is pretty much it. So it has formed a preconceived tendency to misjudge my argument, in that you think the 'Christian God' is the idea that you have in mind when you say these things, and you are confident in that image, that it is the same image that I have.
What happens when I open my mouth to begin showing you that the idea f the 'Christian God' that you have, can be improved, that your reading of the scriptures has been misled and that the right reading would undo all of your arguments? .. then it threatens the security of your position with a new reality, that you would need to acknowledge that you have been wrong (repent).
The only way to escape that discomfort is to increase the stakes by continuing to oppose the view that I am bringing to you, and in order to do that, you must also need to misrepresent the view that I bring.
Furthermore, you weren't born with that way of thinking. It is only after you have spoken to people that have said things that caused you to begin viewing scripture in the way that you do, that your mind has entered that way of thinking. That is what the power is in words. We create a way of thinking in another person's mind, by "spelling things out" to them. We place them under our spell, or rather, the spirit by which we speak does battle to win their way of thinking, through the craft of spelling: spell craft.
There is an added complication for us, in that the English language is incapable of carrying the full intended meaning of the original language, and that the original language itself has been lost in history then altogether reconstructed later, plus the original writings do not exist anymore that we should verify that they have not suffered the same distortion through translation.
.. So, the spell that you are under is different from the spell that I am under, and different again from the spell that others are under (I mean, that I wouldn't agree with a lot of what other Christians might say, because I would similarly argue that they have been misled in their reading of the scriptures).
Now, it is interesting to mention along these lines, that Jesus said "knowing the truth will set us free" .. which means to say in this manner of speaking, that being free in thought is to not be under such a spell - that is, to have arrived at our view of our own absolute authority and not as having come under the mindset of the spirit which put the view in our mind through words. If we find that the words they have said are making god sense and are agreeable, then we have found agreement of our own authority. Whereas, if we accept what they say because we believe that they have a better authority to say so than we do, then we have come under their spell.
Well anyway, all this is to say that despite I can see problems in your view of the scriptures and the image of God that has been formed in you, I don't feel confident that engaging to battle those misconceptions will produce a profitable outcome .. unless you were first willing to consider that what I say has a value that you would appreciate, in changing your way of thinking (which I can already see, that your experiences of talking with "Christians" has left you pretty resolute to not desire that you should concede to go "under their spell").
I could contribute a lot to the points you have raised though, if you were wanting to break through the problems you have found. What I see in your words, however, is that you don't have that desire.
So, I shall wait to see your response to these words.