Fire is a great cleanser, purifier, and changer.
We all know that a horse must be broken, that is, its will must be broken before it is of any practical use to man.
God put that will in the horse, but it must be broken and made to conform to the will of man. Just as surely did God put the will in man, but it must be broken and we will benefit by the very process of breaking.
Man may do a lot of crying and wailing, but when he is broken to his will, what a wonderful condition it is.
God may take man over some rough places, even through the Lake of Fire and brimstone (theion), but the love of God will break every man to His will.
If you think the Kingdom of God is rosewater, or eau-de-cologne, you are mistaken. You cannot war on the devil with that. You cannot war on the carnal minds of men with that. You have to make war on the world, the flesh, and the devil with a sword sharper than any twoedged sword. You have to make war on the carnal mind with fire, Divine Fire that must burn up every inherent altar of Baal, and lick up the very dust around.
It goes on to state we ALL go through the 2nd death, the overcomer is not harmed by it, all are broken (then repaired) by it.
God is good, He doesn't throw the baby away, just the dirty bath water.