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Not liking someone just because they had sex is not very "Christian". It's classic American puritanism right there, and it's disgusting.
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but I'm saying that if her Christian friends there found out what she's been doing, they might not like her so much.
So she gets away with being mean but I don't? OK. The words you use to describe me are way out of line by the way. I just gave her a taste of her own medicine. That's all I did. Why are people so shocked? You should be shocked at HER.
So I'm evil for what I did? Everybody here is ganging up on me but you forget the fact that I was punishing her, not attacking her. And by punishing I mean putting her in her place. Trust me, she deserved it. If she is hurt then she can blame herself for attacking me first.
Why is everyone acting like I started the bullying in this thread? Reminisce picked on me, rememeber? It's her fault.
You can all check my post history, I have never even insulted someone before, she is the only who dragged me down to her level.
"Punish" is just another word for "exact revenge." Even ignoring that, you don't have any right or authority to punish her.
And even ignoring that, punishing somebody for a mistake by using a traumatic history against them is utterly cruel and out of line.
I don't know if you are evil, but what you did certainly was.
Why would I "trust you," that she deserved to have her past ripped open and her face shoved in it? I'm right here, with a scroll bar. I can see how the conversation went for myself. And what you did, at first, was really darn obnoxious. When you found out that it was a sore point and kept stabbing it, yes, that was malicious and evil.
edit: I'm reminded of a recent xkcd comic. "Don't shoot until you can see the whites of their eyes...and smell the scent of their hair...... Don't fire until you can see through the fragile facade to the human being within."
I don't think people understand how painful this topic is to me, and I wish I could say "I blame myself, I started it", but I didn't. What this girl has done is beyond any rationalization. To have my own past ripped open and trampled on and ridiculed in a public forum... I don't even care if people know I'm not a virgin, I just don't want to talk about it.
Rose, I think you are a very disturbed individual. Please get help.
Excuse me? It was me she attacked!
And you tell me to stop egging it on?
Apparently, the idea of virginity is very important to some people.
Sounds like this thread is appropriate right now:
http://www.christianforums.com/t7648728/
How on earth does not being a virgin ruin a wedding?
Yeah, that too. I mean, it's not likely that that's new information on the wedding day. And to most people it's just...life as usual. I used to have a life's goal of having all of my ex's at my wedding (used to, just because it turns out that I'm only going to have one ex, though she'll almost certainly be there, so that's cool).
You wanted all your ex's there so you could be all like, "SEE ME NAO!? This coulda been YOU standing here with me!"
..or is it because you intended to still be friends with all of them? (I'm sure this, but it's certainly more boring than the first)
Lol! No--because I want to still be friends. I wouldn't invite somebody who wouldn't be genuinely happy to be there.
My one ex actually ended up becoming my partner's best friend, so...that's convenient.
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