The hook up culture is ruining everything!

[krugerpark]

we deserve it though, look at the condition of our churches, the country, the culture, this thread is an attempt to deal with the symptoms of sickness and this forum does a fairly good job at ignoring the root causes.

 

[seashale76]

She said:

Clearly this chick has no idea what she's in for. Kudos to her for sticking to her guns. But on the other hand, she's a single, unmarried, 30 year old virgin while hundreds of non-virgins younger than her are married with children. That's very ironic and highly pathetic even for a Christian.

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The only reason men want virgins is because they can't handle a woman who's sexually experienced, smart, worldly and knows things because then they have to work harder to please that woman and be better than the men she's had before. That's why it's so much easier to be with a virgin. They're innocent, naive, gullible, inexperienced and don't have a clue about sex. You can be totally lousy and they'll enjoy it. You can even assault them and they won't know. Basically, a virgin is just easy prey.

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When people thinking like this no wonder most of have to keep our choice quiet while the rest of the world can openly announce they are having sex until the dawn of time...something doesn't feel right about this..

Where on earth are you posting? Youtube? Youtube is full of trolls. All I see are responses that show people who have to bolster themselves up by tearing others down. The second one is so full of inaccuracies. That person is a troll. It's probably some twelve-year-old kid out for the lulz. Virgins are inexperienced- and that's about it. Virginity has nothing to do with being gullible, naive, innocent, clueless, easy prey, or too stupid not to recognize assault if it occurs.

The thing is, I don't think most people DO think like that. On-line is not real life. People can claim to be and do anything here, and anyone could be lying about it. You can't take random stuff said in on-line video comments personally. If you're actually listening to and believing those folks, then don't go to places where you'll encounter that mess anymore.

 

[AzureBlue]

Where on earth are you posting? Youtube? Youtube is full of trolls. All I see are responses that show people who have to bolster themselves up by tearing others down. The second one is so full of inaccuracies. That person is a troll. It's probably some twelve-year-old kid out for the lulz. Virgins are inexperienced- and that's about it. Virginity has nothing to do with being gullible, naive, innocent, clueless, easy prey, or too stupid not to recognize assault if it occurs.

The thing is, I don't think most people DO think like that. On-line is not real life. People can claim to be and do anything here, and anyone could be lying about it. You can't take random stuff said in on-line video comments personally. If you're actually listening to and believing those folks, then don't go to places where you'll encounter that mess anymore.

Ok, even if these are 12 years old saying this, american culture LOVES to separate something so intimate as sex from anything else involving further involving or contact with the other person. Listen how they say "i haven't lost my virginity yet, im such a loser" or " I'm going to find a friend to lose to v card with so that i can get on with my dating life" They see themselves as separate entities (me and virginity or sex activities, the other person is just trash or a slave to help achieve )which need a status of quiet satisfaction to belong even if they leave a train wreck behind, it doesn't matter because they got what they wanted instead of "I haven't find anyone that I admire and love neither has that person found me yet", sex (in my mind ) is a product of that love, not a freaking checkmark to pat yourself on the back when it's done, seriously, I have thought of moving out of the U.S for this very same reason...

 

[seeingeyes]

Ok, even if these are 12 years old saying this, american culture LOVES to separate something so intimate as sex from anything else involving further involving or contact with the other person. Listen how they say "i haven't lost my virginity yet, im such a loser" or " I'm going to find a friend to lose to v card with so that i can get on with my dating life" They see themselves as separate entities (me and virginity or sex activities, the other person is just trash or a slave to help achieve )which need a status of quiet satisfaction to belong even if they leave a train wreck behind, it doesn't matter because they got what they wanted instead of "I haven't find anyone that I admire and love neither has that person found me yet", sex (in my mind ) is a product of that love, not a freaking checkmark to pat yourself on the back when it's done, seriously, I have thought of moving out of the U.S for this very same reason...

Where are you planning on moving to?

 

[AzureBlue]

Where are you planning on moving to?

I don't know but Miami Florida is not the ideal place for a serious christian to keep living. It's very difficult to stand your way without an army standing against you and laughing all the way home. If you are female here you got severe competition from all angles of willing and beautiful women that will keep men blinded from good and equally beautiful women just because they give it up faster and all that jazz..

I have not made one female friend beyond my best friend for these reasons that I seem to be so out of the loop for everybody. Every ridiculous sin is magnified down here and all the problems follow too. Whatever...

 

[krugerpark]

yeah are you going to move to Europe where they are in the process of legalizing Shariah law

the whole world is growing cold in faith, be a warrior and an example of how things were in the United States to the new generation.

 

[Redheadedstepchild]

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I have done a minor thread cleaning to keep this thread on track. Carry on.