Does God actually ask us to cease that behavior? Leviticus isn't applicable, because we're not Ancient Israelites and it never refers to gay women. Romans is clearly discussing pagan idolatry, and Augustine said it refers to heterosexuals. Corinthians is a corrupt translation. What's left?
And let's say God does want us to cease same-sex relationships. What then is your solution for gay people? What would you say to a gay person who desperately needs and wants a loving relationship, companionship, emotional and physical intimacy, etc. What's the acceptable choice for them?
The previous post about denying yourself and following Jesus is the way Conseratives deal with desires that don't match scriptural directives.
EG. I was born selfish like we all are, and learned from God and scripture to put aside what I want (for the sake of the happiness of others).
Of course I'm still learning, which is why family and friends can still find something I need to change.
I've had many struggles all through life with my desires NOT matching scripture.
I was tormented by these situations until I got God's help with each situation.
Usually it ended up with me saying "God, I'm done here. I can't control myself (thoughts, feelings, behaviors, motives, etc) so I'm through with me. Please do something to change me inside and out so that I match your will".
2 ME's FIGHTING
I noticed in every struggle I had, there was 2 parts of me fighting each other. One part of me wants to do things God's way, the other part of me (flesh, mind, emotions, etc) wants something that contradicts scripture and seriously wants what it wants.
It felt like there were 2 "me"s.
I asked God what was going on and He helped me decide to choose to side with the part of me that agreed with God, and get God's help with the part of me that didn't want to do what God said.
This really isn't as easy as it may sound, but it's the only way I found to get free from a struggle with something that not only contradicts scripture, but also seems unchangeable in me.
ME FIGHTING GOD
Before I became aware of the 2 me's fighting, I used to think I was fighting God. This REALLY made the struggle worse, because that meant that perhaps I didn't love God enough to obey Him. John 14:15
When I thought I was fighting God, I'd have seriously tortuous struggles that lasted years sometimes.
In this state I came to point of deciding I don't care anymore about what I want. I just want the struggle to end. It felt like I gave up on my right to have what I want, to surrender FULLY to what God wants, and get God's help to do what He wants.
When I did this it felt like a permanent death or loss at first, but very soon, my life improved in ways unimaginable because I now was doing what God wanted.
ONLY GOD CAN HELP
Now it's important to note that all my struggles were private. No one but God knew what anti-scripture struggles I had. I didn't have to face anyone but God.
This helped tremendously, because sometimes people judge us, offend us, and then we dig our heels in and decide to show them I'm every bit as good as they are just as I am. Which is true, we're all equal, but people's judgements can interfere with our desire to change and do what God wants.
GOD DOESN'T FORCE ANYONE
My family and friends are all the time pointing out "inconsistencies" in my life, but they've learned to not force me to change, because force (nagging, bullying) hinders me. They now simply say "scripture says this, but you're doing that".
Each time I can choose to do what I want, or I can ask God what's going on, and get His help to do what He says to do. Every time I get God's help to do things His way, everyone around me is much happier. God never forces me to change. He waits for me to decide I want to change, and then He's there helping me all the way through.
THINK OF MYSELF
Sometimes the devil tempts me to forget everyone else and do what I want, but I did that for years, and it doesn't work nearly as well as doing things God's way, which is: think of others and bless others by doing what God says with my life (Matthew 16:24, Mark 8:34, Luke 9:23), and God will bless me.