The Dating Force LOL!!

[Lovestruck]

Right now I'm not into dating but I find myself more and more wanting to but not wanting to. Hope that makes sense.

I was talking to this guy and it was as if someone was saying "your going to talk to him whether you want to or not." I know this sounds crazy but everything I said about not wanting to date went out the window with this guy. Normally when I would say no I'd say yes and I didn't even hesistate on it. LOL!!!

Any experiences???? or idea as to whats happening.

Felt like someone was taking charge of my dating thing since I won't. LOL!! This is nuts but so felt like it guys.

 

[HolyOne87]

yikes, im going through that now.
It's insane and I know exactly what you are talking about.

Maybe, like me, you feel very comfortable with this person. How long have you known the guy?

 

[Lovestruck]

yikes, im going through that now.
It's insane and I know exactly what you are talking about.

Maybe, like me, you feel very comfortable with this person. How long have you known the guy?

Only a couple of weeks. However we've talked many times so he's not some stranger.

I have no idea what's happening. I don't know if being comfortable had anything to do with it because I've felt comfortable with guys before yet I just said no.

Maybe my subconsious stepped in and I don't know.

 

[HolyOne87]

you never know. lol

you def might have a mild interest in him because you two talk a lot.
Usually situations like this are always hard to figure out. Im still trying to figure out mine..haha

 

[Lovestruck]

you never know. lol

you def might have a mild interest in him because you two talk a lot.
Usually situations like this are always hard to figure out. Im still trying to figure out mine..haha

Yes but this is insane.

 

[Lovestruck]

Oh and come to think of it. I don't even know if he has a girlfriend. I didn't even think to ask and he never mentioned it.

*rolls eyes*

He probably does. A guy like that. There's no way he's single. *shucks*

 

[HolyOne87]

it wouldn't hurt to ask one day though...just bring it up suddenly in conversation and find out.

 

[Lovestruck]

it wouldn't hurt to ask one day though...just bring it up suddenly in conversation and find out.

Are you crazy? LOL!!

"Uh yeah are you seeing anyone?" I don't think so. Lol!!

I'd have to do it in a round about way or something. Hmm......

 

[Niels]

Why not ask him what his girlfriend is up to?

 

[Lovestruck]

And when he asks why? what am I suppose to say?

Hmm...I'm thinking here I'm thinking. Normally people volunteer that info.

 

[JonMiller]

I sometimes think that all the girls who seem nice must be in a relationship or something. I maybe am not agressive enough because of this. I guess, don't do what I do, and be more agressive.

JM

 

[Lovestruck]

Why do you think that? You think only the mean ones are available?

Reason I think this guy is taking is that he just seems like one that is in one. If not then I have no idea why he isn't.

 

[innerlink]

It's kinda funny how ironic this is... it's not some inexplicable force. The thing is, no Christian could accept it, and anyone that could, wouldn't be Christian.
Which kinda explains why none my friends whose advice on women I'd actually consider are Christian.

 

[innerlink]

I sometimes think that all the girls who seem nice must be in a relationship or something. I maybe am not agressive enough because of this. I guess, don't do what I do, and be more agressive.

JM

Does it matter whether they're in relationships or not?

 

[JonMiller]

I have little interest for girls in relationships...

And nothing makes me lose interest in a girl faster then if she pursues someone else.

JM