The date..guys only

[Goodbook]

I don't think so. Most guys hate carpenters. They'd rather listen to bohemian rhapsody instead.

 

[Cearbhall]

Oh you would end up going somewhere....

 

[Goodbook]

Sometimes it's nice to do something less 'formal'.

Dates have a lot associated with them and pressure is one of those things. There's so much expectation to just 'be on your A-game'. Personally I'm not really a huge fan. I'd rather just do stuff we both enjoyed and if that meant a lazy night in watching TV then so what? You're still getting to talk. You're still getting to know each other better.

then don't date. Stay home and talk on the phone if you want to talk.

 

[Cearbhall]

then don't date. Stay home and talk on the phone if you want to talk.

You talk about dating as if it's all about going fun places and not about, ya know, spending time with a person and hopefully developing a relationship. This is as silly as saying that you shouldn't get married if you plan to do things with your spouse that you could just do at home. Most people who date have an end goal other than a cool Facebook album.

 

[TheGirlOnFire]

You talk about dating as if it's all about going fun places and not about, ya know, spending time with a person and hopefully developing a relationship. This is as silly as saying that you shouldn't get married if you plan to do things with your spouse that you could just do at home. Most people who date have an end goal other than a cool Facebook album.

Yep...



Plus Goodbook if you asked a guy over for youtube and chill they really wouldn't care what song it was, just how long the song lasted for.....

 

[Goodbook]

But..why would I ask a guy over for you-tube and chill?
I'm not asking anyone out. They wouldn't want to come to my place anyway.

 

[Hawthorne]

YouTube and chill.

 

[Goodbook]

you people are strange and weird.
Sorry but you just are.

anyway I don't think 'Missy' would do that either. She has standards. And, she lets a guy be the man and do the asking.

 

[Hawthorne]

I'll bet Merry would.

 

[Goodbook]

I don't get the chill part either.
why can't it be you-tube and ice cream. Or ice tea?

I mean really. Does a girl have to take an ipad on the date or will the boy supply his own? Or will they both be watching their personal ones?

 

[Goodbook]

who's Merry?

 

[Goodbook]

I think Merry must be 'Missy's wild half-sister.

 

[Cearbhall]

you people are strange and weird.
Sorry but you just are.

Oh look, we're back to you not even trying to hide your rudeness and contempt. I missed it so.

anyway I don't think 'Missy' would do that either. She has standards. And, she lets a guy be the man and do the asking.

Why does it matter what Missy wants? She'll find her man, the rest don't all have to change to fit what she wants.

I don't get the chill part either.
why can't it be you-tube and ice cream.

I ask this respectfully and out of honest curiosity: How old are you?

 

[Hawthorne]

I ask this respectfully and out of honest curiosity: How old are you?

It looks like she graduated from university in 2001.

 

[Goodbook]

Yeah 'missy' is old. Too old and prolly too sophisticated for anyone not a child of the 80s.
But i did say she likes old fashioned.

Anyway, if you too young, best stay away and watch tv amongst yourselves. Yawn.

 

[Goodbook]

'Merry' did not go to uni at all, she works at mcdonalds mccafe, so goes on dates every day she works.

 

[Goodbook]

Also, she LOVES bohomeian rhapsody and gay singers like freddie mercury. Also, shes no christian.

 

[Hawthorne]

I have it on good authority that 'Missy' is a literate librarian, and that makes her good in my book.

 

[Goodbook]

Really?
Im surprised. But nobody has even remotely suggested a literary date.

 

[Hawthorne]

Any date with me would have implicit literary qualities. The 'Netflix and chill' post had in mind marathoning the 1995 production of Pride and Prejudice.