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Man this time different thing sucks, I miss all the fun lol

If someone would find it in their hearts to PM what went on and what happened before.
 
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Man this time different thing sucks, I miss all the fun lol
Yeah and that's what I want on a date too: some fun.
I'm gonna look for a comedian who sells icecreams to make a living. That way my kid can eat icecream all day long for free.
I know what happened. Tom Mix left. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeh
 
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Sometimes it's nice to do something less 'formal'.

Dates have a lot associated with them and pressure is one of those things. There's so much expectation to just 'be on your A-game'. Personally I'm not really a huge fan. I'd rather just do stuff we both enjoyed and if that meant a lazy night in watching TV then so what? You're still getting to talk. You're still getting to know each other better.

+1

Why would I get too much out of my own comfort zone or do something I totally wouldn't do or go to otherwise. Then I'm not being myself any more.:p
 
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It wasnt even a very long walk...just by the sea. Also I learned you dont ask a guy out, cos theyll say yes to anything you wanna do, but they wont actually want to do it they just being polite. But then you have to pay and be host..which is wrong for a girl...i think its more manly for a guy to take the lead.

Some girls may not agree but in my experience, yes.
 
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I think proper dating is out of a lot of peoples comfort zones it seems to me.

They can just stay in bed and not go out and talk on the phone if you ask me.
Hahahahaha that'd be great!
Hi! I'm Jaap Aap and I'm not gonna pretend I'm someone else and like going out. My comfort zone is my bed. You can call me after 12 o'clock when I wake up.
Oh lol my brother in law used to have an automatic phone answer machine with this message:
Hi we're not at home or we're just too lazy to pick up the phone.
Hahahahaha my dad got angry when he tried to call them.
 
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Why would tom mix leave? I dont even know who he is, sorry. Its not that. Its just people being sarcastic. I dont do sarcasm. Its hurtful, and not even clever. This is a christian forum, at least act like one.
 
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Hahahahaha that'd be great!
Hi! I'm Jaap Aap and I'm not gonna pretend I'm someone else and like going out. My comfort zone is my bed. You can call me after 12 o'clock when I wake up.
Oh lol my brother in law used to have an automatic phone answer machine with this message:
Hi we're not at home or we're just too lazy to pick up the phone.
Hahahahaha my dad got angry when he tried to call them.
Yes, i like going out on dates where a guy has out a bit of thought into what wed BOTH like to do.
 
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I think if i didnt go out at least a couple of times with a guy the whole thing would just be talking on the phone and then running out of conversation. I can talk on the phone to my gfs.

But its such a drag if a guy wants to chat all the time. He's probably be someone who has lots of experience chatting up girls.
 
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I think if i didnt go out at least a couple of times with a guy the whole thing would just be talking on the phone and then running out of conversation. I can talk on the phone to my gfs.

But its such a drag if a guy wants to chat all the time. He's probably be someone who has lots of experience chatting up girls.
I hate chatting. Wouldn't work for me either.
 
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