Your son/daughter is dying of AIDS and if a cure isn't administered within the next 24 hrs he/she will die. You hold in your hand the cure. You have exactly one dose, but this dose can be used to create countless others but the process will take weeks and requires the use of all of the initial dose. What do you do?
but I agree with you, to a point. Also, it isn't right for people with children to criticize your choice. You don't become a more important person simply because you have a child, but you do gain a better understanding of what other parents feel, once you get there yourself.