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That Awkward Moment Thread
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That awkward moment when ladies twice or three times your age start showing interest in you.
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Elizabeth8393
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Oh eww!! Can we say Cougar much?
When I used to work at Macy's then there was this married man who was having marital problems and he asked me out on a date. He also has teenage kids. I was officially freaked.
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I KNOW! She was my first kiss, on the last date we went on, and it being my first kiss and all it was pretty bad, so she is like "yea we will do that some more" being very much upfront that she is into me, I'm thinking its been a month of talking this is probably heading to a relationship. Nope. I vented about it somewhere else on here, I think in the advice channel. I'm stuck in limbo because I told her I would stick around for a little bit ( but not forever) while she Figures stuff out, said she was figuring stuff out for life and was in a really bad spot and no one knew what was going on. I REALLY want to believe her, but then I see on social media she is looking forward to a date with another guy.
*sigh* she was amazing :/ (seriously, if I made a list of everything I wanted in a girl, she was systematically checking them all off)
If she ever text me back to let me know whats "going on" (I doubt she ever will honestly) then I'm probably just going to be like "then why were you dating other people", just to be a jerk, cause I'm pretty angry about being lead on.
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Oh eww!! Can we say Cougar much?
When I used to work at Macy's then there was this married man who was having marital problems and he asked me out on a date. He also has teenage kids. I was officially freaked.
What can I say? A handsome young man like myself, I can't blame them
Ok, that is really creepy!!
That awkward moment when you get a friend request from a random guy and you look on their profile and they are an LGBT activist.
That awkward moment when people joke about things which are totally against your morals and principals unaware.
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Elizabeth8393
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Eesh, that's a really sucky situation. I've been lead on before. A lot. Each new time is more aggravating than the last. :/
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Elizabeth8393
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What can I say? A handsome young man like myself, I can't blame them
Ok, that is really creepy!!
That awkward moment when you get a friend request from a random guy and you look on their profile and they are an LGBT activist.
That awkward moment when people joke about things which are totally against your morals and principals unaware.
Heehee!! I'll attest to that.
Oh I know right?! He was in his 40's and I was really freaked out.
That awkward moment when you get hit on by a bi girl.
That awkward moment when you accidentally say "Love you" when ending a phone convorsation with someone you aren't related to.
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Honestly, the biggest thing that pains me is I kissed her, Maybe I'm idiotic but I always wanted my first kiss to be with someone I actually liked, not some fling, pity thing, or worthless little thing you know? Know whenever I see people kiss on tv, or heck, any romantic ANYTHING at all, I flash back to holding/kissing her, which is just a real pleasant memory right now.
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Oh man, I can totally understand that. As a guy who hasn't kissed a girl yet, I wouldn't want it to be thrown away on just anyone either.
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Ugh. I feel ye. It's happened to me a few times... not pkwasant...
EDIT: that awkward moment when auto correct. ......
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YEP, it SUCKS because she actually commented like "we will have to work on that", and other times she made it pretty obvious she wanted to continue on, honestly I thought one more date and we would become exclusive. Apparently she would rather date other guys and while telling me she just needs to figure out some life things. I have half a mind to block her on my phone but I'm morbidly curious what she will say she had going on.
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Wow, you've never kissed before?
Serious respect right there!!
A sad situation indeed. Honestly speaking, it would be best to forget her. The rose flower has withered, better to find new ground then treading on thorns every step you take.
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Elizabeth8393
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A very wise bit of advice. I'm even gonna take it for myself where this guy in my church is involved. But back to you...
It is very hard to stick with someone who has already disrespected you, hurt you and lead you on. I have no idea what her deal is. But that is a huge red flag right there. I would follow Z's advice and look for new ground.
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@Newman- I know it sucks, but there's no real way this can wind back in your favor. So what? She's gonna go out with some other guy and maybe if she doesn't like him, then she'll settle for you?.. You deserve better, brother. Keep your head up.
That awkward moment when everyone is discussing kissing and you've never kissed....
That awkward moment when everyone is discussing kissing and you've never kissed....
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Well, my PLAN, is basically to do what I said, I'll "stand by" her, but keeping in mind all this, then if a month later she has not contacted me, boom, I'm gone, but at same time, when/if she contacts me (probably won't but who knows) then she better have some REAL good reasons for what she did.
Mainly because honestly, I don't think another girl like her even exist. I'm not your typical christian, I'm very serious about my relationship with god, but I'm also pretty much the anti-thesis of church culture. I like band t-shirts, metal (I'm a musician so, its THE biggest passion in my life outside god), and frankly I have little to nothing in common with the VAST majority of other Christians I know. Its very lonely. here is a girl, who was practically the female version of me. Thats the most depressing thing, we had stuff in common, she was attracted in EXACTLY the way I like, modest, and I really liked her personality. But then all this crap happened. It sucks, I wish I could whip it from my mind.
What? You too?(All hail)
Its not all its cracked up to be, at least for me, I mean it was amazing, but I wish mine hadn't happened at all, so, its wasn't THAT good, magical, or anything like that.
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Yeah. Because it's like: I have to figure some things out. Those things being this person they like more, but aren't sure if they share their feelings, so they back burner you while they figure out if they have a chance with the other person.
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