tempted to look...

[Joseph E.]

This thread doesn't need my two cents.

It is a security issue with a woman. Even if we didn't look we would be accused for it anyway. I suggest praying about it. Talk about it together and see how things work. It is natural to look at other people. We are human. I look then I place a picture of my wife in my head. She is my princess. Think about it.

God Bless,
Bro. Jason McCord

 

[LadyBird]

Nobody else has mentioned this, but perhaps the problem isn't you, it could be your girlfriend's overzealous jealousy...

I think so too!!! Or perhaps she is insecure about herself or doesn't trust you. I'm sure that she is tempted to look at other guys too. Your girlfriend just has to remember that if you wanted to with someone more attractive, then you would be.

 

[andrewbee]

...Your girlfriend just has to remember that if you wanted to with someone more attractive, then you would be.

Not necessarily. For a long time, I thought I had messed up big time and married the wrong person. You see, when I fell in love with my future wife, it was for her personality and who she is on the inside. I actually thought that to even have physical attractiveness be a factor in choosing who to be with was shallow and wrong.

She was and is a wonderful, caring person though, and we got married. At times, I regretted naivety at thinking physical attractiveness didn't matter. Life taught me a big, huge lesson there.

Luckily, over a year ago now, she had weight loss surgery (her decision, not by pressure on my part), and is now very attractive too!

 

[IslandBreeze]

There is absolutely nothing shallow about wanting an attractive mate. You surely don't want to wake up to someone for the rest of your life that you don't find attractive.

 

[Bunker]

we analyze girls together. Point out their highpoints and lowpoints.

Highpoints and lowpoints? Sounds a little shallow to me....and not very Christ like. What reason do you do this?

 

[Cutes4Jesus]

Not necessarily. For a long time, I thought I had messed up big time and married the wrong person. You see, when I fell in love with my future wife, it was for her personality and who she is on the inside. I actually thought that to even have physical attractiveness be a factor in choosing who to be with was shallow and wrong.

She was and is a wonderful, caring person though, and we got married. At times, I regretted naivety at thinking physical attractiveness didn't matter. Life taught me a big, huge lesson there.

Luckily, over a year ago now, she had weight loss surgery (her decision, not by pressure on my part), and is now very attractive too!

was that really necessary...there are other safer ways to lose weight but maybe a doctor recommended it?