So you'd rather make people feel horrible about themselves than make them feel good about themselves? That is what you seem to be saying, since you seem to think it's wrong to tell homosexuals they're fine the way they are (which is a way to make them feel good about themselves), and instead you seem to think that homosexuals should be told that they're bad, sinful, and dirty simply because they're attracted to the same gender (which is a way to make them feel bad about themselves).
Tell me, do you even know anything about how much it can hurt to be told that you're a bad person over and over again? Or do you not care about how much something hurts someone else, as long as you yourself are following the Bible as literally as possible?
What if a homosexual killed him/herself because he/she felt like she was disgusting, evil, and unworthy of being alive? Would you even care at all about that, or would you just be glad that his/her homosexuality wasn't being celebrated?