Shannie, love, making yourself a meal plan is such a huge step in the right direction... keep up the good work. You
are stronger... you may not see that now, but it's true... you have come so far. Who cares about the weight if it fluctuates a little bit? That is the attitude that we
should have, I think - as long as we take care of ourselves and what we eat, then we shouldn't be so worried about weight fluctuation if it's only by a couple pounds. That's in a perfect world, I know. But... well, yeah. You are doing wonderfully, though... you really are.
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Ladybug, I understand what you mean. It's really hard to turn around suicidal thinking... believe me, I know that!!! It's not that I am saying you have to turn around your thinking... because I know that in that mindset, it's so hard to do
anything except dwell on those thoughts. I'm just saying that perhaps if you tell yourself over and over again that living is worth it, even if you can't see it yet, then you will eventually be able to convince yourself. It works a little bit... and may as well try it for awhile to see, right? It probably sounds ridiculous... but it's something that kept me from actually attempting this last time.
So it might help. If you need to talk, I'm here.
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Sabrina, I, too, admire you for being able to keep exercise in check. That's fantastic. I know that
I struggle with that... I never know when enough morphs into too much... normally on Monday nights I go for a ninety minute long yoga class, and about an hour of that is strenuous poses... and I always do the most difficult level of poses that are "offered" (e.g., "you can do X, but if you want to go one level higher, you can do Y, and if you want to really challenge yourself, do Z - but stay at your comfort level and listen to your body - don't be pressured into going any further than your body says is okay" - I always ignore that last bit and go for the hardest level, no matter how much it hurts, because for me it is a competition with my friend [who goes with me] and with myself... and also to wear off what I've eaten during the day).
Anyway. Yeah.
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My weight's gone up some too, Shannie, and I'm freaking out... I see my N on Wednesday and I am so, so nervous.
I'm scared that it's fat, not water or waste retention, or lean muscle... don't know what I will do if I find that out. So scared. I feel like a whale, I really do.
But I am still eating. And eating pretty healthily, I guess. Protein bars mostly. I skipped the main bit of lunch today, but had enough protein bars interspersed throughout the day that I should be okay calorie-wise.
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Love you all. xx