Not to suggest that I believe that I am Christian, but why does #3 depend on #2 and #1, instead of #2 and #1 simply being a recommended method for reaching or preparing oneself for #3? Isn't #3 really the heart of it all, in the Christian view? If someone has achieved #3, but not #1 or #2, wouldn't that be all that is required for "Kingdom admission"?
I've asked essentially this same question to a believer in another thread, to let him see if he does know Scripture or not as he claims. I thoroughly understand where you're coming from and offer no opinion of my own as I don't 'sit that high,' so to speak. I can and will give you the Bible's perspective on it:
in this life, the kingdom that is within reach suffers violence, and the violent take it by force. This is not only advocated, but is the definition of meekness. (As in the meek shall inherit the Earth.) People typically confuse this with weakness. You may do this (not confuse it but arrive at the goal) well and it seems you do from where I sit. It would be hard to classify this as meekness though, because there's no aspect of submission specifically to G-d. OTOH, you may actually be submitting to ancient philosphers, and it would be a hard case to make that they had no inspiration. So I'm not
about to enter an opinion on that one ...
Entering eternal life, (notice I refrain from the term "going to heaven" since I see no justification for it's use and
to me it smacks of religiosity, meaning false man-made notions)
the applicable term becomes whoever doesn't go the prescribed way (back to Ephraim's post, 1, 2, 3) is the same as a thief, or a robber. Again, I won't pretend to announce the outcome, but it doesn't sound good. The "bending the knee" thing seems to be a big thing, and I share your disdain for it. I literally lost everything I had including my ability, and was on my death bed before I actually would submit. At our age now, there's much more to lose.
And just like in the OT, the expected cycle is to prosper after the Lord delivers us out of our troubles, then we forget the Lord, suffer, cry out for deliverance, he delivers, we forget the Lord ... rinse and repeat. He desires us to get off that treadmill and mature. Which brings us full circle in the conversation to where you came in!
I don't think He'd mind being considered as a life insurance policy, but Pascal's wager doesn't cut it. Basis? Job did the life insurance thing. Worked for him.