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Struggle -- Can anyone help me out?

Levvie

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So, for the longest time I've been struggling with the "dreaded m-word". Yes, that's right, I hate it so much i can't even type it ("mast" is about as close as I can get).
I used to struggle with it every day, but thank God, God has made some great changes in my life recently and I have been getting stronger in fighting it to the point where I can go for like a month without having any problems. But I still have trouble sometimes!

I want to get rid of this problem FOR GOOD! Some people told me the ONLY way out was to get an "accountability partner". Well, even though I don't really want to believe that, I'm willing to give it a shot. I was wondering... is anyone here on this site who would be willing to help me out? Just someone I could message if i get confused or start struggling or have questions? Because also, i have some questions about sexuality that confuse me...

Someone please help!
 

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Hey Levvie! Definitely don't think you're alone in this. Many people struggle with masturbation. However, not everyone is always willing to take the steps to fight the war that is in spiritual warfare. Though you don't want to say it, it is better to call the sin out by name so you can boldly ask God to remain faithful and keep His promises. He will do it for sure because He is faithful indeed, but how much are you trusting Him even with the little things?

I don't mind being your accountability partner. If I can help, don't hesitate to seek help. We're a community of believers for a reason. Even God wasn't fully alone. It was Him, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit since before the beginning of time. We're made for community to love one another, not to condemn each other.
 
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