Hello!
I've been a lurker here lately, just checking everything out and I decided to become a member.
I've been a protestant all my life (mainly Presbyterian) but recently I've been seriously thinking about possibly converting to Catholicism; it's something I've felt is weighing on my heart deeply.
I'm familiar with the belief about being (or not being) in a state of grace. However, I just read an article on Beliefnet.com with the actress Patricia Heaton and I thought she brought up a point about it that I couldn't answer myself, so I thought I would bring it up here where you all know much, much more about it than I do. Here is what she said:
"I think that the main difficulty for me, when Catholicism was this idea that was really deeply planted, was that you exist either in a state of grace or out of a state of grace, and God forbid you should get hit by a bus when you're out of a state of grace, because it's all over for you. And, I think that set up a horrible thing in me, that my salvation was not secure. I think that would be the main problem I had with the Catholic Church. I don't even know that that's [still] taught, but that was so ingrained in me. And that unless you went to confession, that you would still be out of a state of grace. You had to go to confession, get back in a state of grace."
How exactly does this work? Say that I've sinned since the last time I've gone to confession and I suddenly die...does that put me out of a state of grace and therefore give me no chance of going to heaven? Again, I'm sorry I'm ignorant on this subject; it's probably a fairly easy answer. I would just like to know your thoughts on it.
I've been a lurker here lately, just checking everything out and I decided to become a member.

I've been a protestant all my life (mainly Presbyterian) but recently I've been seriously thinking about possibly converting to Catholicism; it's something I've felt is weighing on my heart deeply.
I'm familiar with the belief about being (or not being) in a state of grace. However, I just read an article on Beliefnet.com with the actress Patricia Heaton and I thought she brought up a point about it that I couldn't answer myself, so I thought I would bring it up here where you all know much, much more about it than I do. Here is what she said:
"I think that the main difficulty for me, when Catholicism was this idea that was really deeply planted, was that you exist either in a state of grace or out of a state of grace, and God forbid you should get hit by a bus when you're out of a state of grace, because it's all over for you. And, I think that set up a horrible thing in me, that my salvation was not secure. I think that would be the main problem I had with the Catholic Church. I don't even know that that's [still] taught, but that was so ingrained in me. And that unless you went to confession, that you would still be out of a state of grace. You had to go to confession, get back in a state of grace."
How exactly does this work? Say that I've sinned since the last time I've gone to confession and I suddenly die...does that put me out of a state of grace and therefore give me no chance of going to heaven? Again, I'm sorry I'm ignorant on this subject; it's probably a fairly easy answer. I would just like to know your thoughts on it.