Thanks Amadeus. There are many people on here that are hurting and it's good to see people on here uplifting them. Unfortunately I've been somewhat cynical this last year and it has showed in some of my posts.
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We all have our bad times and that certainly is one of the reasons that He gave us each other. If only we could always remember that!Thanks Amadeus. There are many people on here that are hurting and it's good to see people on here uplifting them. Unfortunately I've been somewhat cynical this last year and it has showed in some of my posts.
Rad, I can see you have allowed HOPE to lift you up, placing great trust in The Mercy of Our Lord and using the WORD to fill your minds thoughts. This is what pleases Him most. You are already benefiting as you are not afraid to approach Him. Thank you so much for sharing here with others who may be experiencing a similar path in life.Being alone can be a trial and sometimes hard to endure. I had to apply some of the regimen that I learned in CoDA years ago and that is some of the things that you mentioned SG. The detachment, laying boundaries and self esteem. The biggest comfort was knowing that God was there for me and that I could endure this past year being alone. It drove me back to reading the bible and digesting His word.
It's still tough though.
Your words comforted me Springrain and I wasn't even the one expressing a need. God has richly blessed hasn't He?With alones usually comes loss. Loss of dreams, expectations, companions, and sometimes the loss of the worldly affects of a life of hard work. If you have experienced a loss, you know losing hurts. It makes no difference what type of loss you experience, losing hurts because what you had or what you hoped for in the past is somehow gone or diminished. It serves no purpose to tell yourself you do not hurt from a loss when the truth is otherwise. When we lose, we must remember we can always deal with the loss. When we lose, we may never fully recover from the loss but we can recover enough to move on and move forward. Many of the great contributions to the world come at times when others have hurt the most from a loss because the contributors found hope. We must also remember even when we hurt from the loss; we still have the capability to live today and tomorrow as a result of our hope. After a loss, we still have the capability to live again despite the searing pain we feel. Over time, with prayer and with a humble heart, the pain of our losing begins to heal as hope begins to restore our heart. Although we may hurt deeply in a loss, we can learn to live and be productive again. Once we find HOPE, we can learn to live in new ways and live in new times, even when the new times are quite different than the old times.
I am glad to share with you Amadeus because I know that you live this in your heart.Your words comforted me Springrain and I wasn't even the one expressing a need. God has richly blessed hasn't He?
Hebrews 11
1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
