That depends on your interpretation of what "the perfect" or "completeness" (as the NIV and others better translate it) is.
I would say all that is claimed to be tongues today is counterfeit. I don't see any matching the only description of the gift in scripture (Acts 2) that being known foreign languages.
Personal experience is not enough reason to "forbid speaking in tongues," which is a direct command of scripture. I Cor 13:49
Tongues is a gift that can easily be, and often is, misused. Some deliberately fake it to look more spiritual (like a church (cult) I visited once where the Pastor would start yodeling and the worship team start babbling on cue, stopping when he stopped, but it was all an act.) Some mistake glossolalia for tongues, when glossolalia is just nonsense utterances without syntax and is easy for many humans to do (and common in religions throughout the world.) Other times the tongue may be genuine, but the usage 'improper' as more than one person speaks at once or no interpretation is sought or given.
But the misuse of a gift doesn't mean it should be forbidden, which was part of Paul's letter on tongues and other gifts in I Cor. (Just like false teachers and misuse of the gospel are not a reason to throw the gospel out.)
The proper usage of tongues can still be found today:
- Some missionaries working in tribes where no one knows the language have reported being able to speak with the people in tongues to share the gospel
- Some missionaries have received the ability to speak in a tongue (Spanish, for example) that they never trained in or learned
- Some church groups allow people to speak in tongues so long as they or someone else interprets, edifying the church.
I've personally encountered both the misuse and proper usage of tongues. For example:
- The cult I mentioned faking tongues to look hyper-spiritual and 'awe' the congregation (faking - the pastor out of ego and the worship team out of ego/fear)
- An unbeliever in a park using glossolalia (demonic possession)
- A Pastor speaking in tongues quietly when praying off in a corner (Genuine. I translated for my sister who was with me as I was close enough to hear.)
- Several people in a prayer group babbling over each other at the same time (Glossolalia, though they genuinely believed they were speaking in tongues. Unfortunately, this is a common problem in groups where they teach anyone can speak in tongues, that it should be pursued, and that being able to speak in tongues is treated as more 'spiritual' by the group)
- A woman in church giving a tongue and interpretation (genuine)
- A woman on a worship team pausing to break into glossolalia (glossolalia, though she thought it was genuine)
- A boy in a Bible study praying off to himself in tongues (genuine)
- Two people during a group prayer speaking in tongues (genuine but improper, as everyone even those speaking in English were speaking at the same time and it was an unedifying cacophony)
Anyways, where scripture is clear "Do not forbid speaking in tongues," church groups should not take their own authority and ban it. However, proper rules should be used (such as Paul's guidelines of only one at a time, no more than two or three in a session, and always with interpretation in public.) And since not everyone has the same gifts and "not all speak in tongues" (I Cor 12:30) church groups should not unduly encourage it or treat it as a higher mark of spirituality.