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Some Christian Relationship advice needed please?

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mylordandsavoiur

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I have already posted this but in the wrong forum but here is my post in the right forum. I am quite worried, as I don’t know what to think. I really need some relationship advice. Whenever I get worried or stressed about something in life, which does happen at times with human beings. I really would like my girlfriend to be supportive and helpful in times like this for me. However, her reaction is one of rolling her eyes, getting mad at me, getting frustrated with me etc. I told her this is hurtful to me but she just said she gets like that whenever its me or her father or someone she looks up to, but doesn't get like that when its someone she sees as weaker than her or needing help. But for me, there are times in life that I do feel stressed I am afraid and I feel I would like my girlfriend to be helpful to me in those times or kind, rather than getting mad at me when I am under stress. What are peoples thoughts on this situation?
 

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I'd say she is missing a keep area where we should have compassion toward others. How much more towards one you love?

Might just be her immaturity and lack of experience.

I don't know what that will mean to your long term relationship, as she might change, but then she might not.
 
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