right, and both capitalism and socialism put the power on the dollar, free market puts the power on the people....what use to happen when a woman had a baby? Well, during free market, the woman was given more time to recouperate, and in most cases, an older woman, mother or friend, maybe sister, church member, would come in and offer to help....when the power is in the hands of the people not the greedy capitalist or greedy governments, people get the help they need, which is what the bible teaches btw....
Where are you gettting anything about population control from? You are proposing power linked to wealth, I am pointing out that that situation disadvantages certain groups unfairly. If power is linked directly to personal spending, and a woman has lost that personal spending, she has lost her power. Her husband is not a proxy for her. Let me try and explain using your examples.

I am suggesting power to those who have the initiative to move beyond the norm into a world of opportunities for all....What I am saying is that in free market, the woman is no longer confind to the dollar she has or doesn't have, under free market she now has the opportunity to use her creativity and choosen limitations to increase her buying power....but let's hear your complaints
A woman supports the neigbourhood corner store that has sprouted up as an alternative to walmart. When she becomes pregnant, she has to take some time off so she has no spending power of her own. She can only continue to support that corner shop if her husband allows her, because she is using his spending power. Of course, you could argue that most couples are in mutral agreement and will support each others decisions, but that isn't always the case. By tying power to wealth, you are automatically elevating some people above others. And as wealth has traditionally been linked to power anyway, you are unlike to change any status quo or force any change towards greater equality.

So now, we have no responsibility over our own decisions? We can also argue that there are woman who only have the food money that they husbands give them, let's hand them government money so their husbands can take that away and they have nothing left because we have not personal responsibility to adhere to....sorry I don't buy what your selling here. You could take 100 people, 1000, one million, doesn't matter, give them all the same money, same buying power, same everything and in a year, they will all have differing amount, in 10 years you won't even recognize they had the same to start with....it's called life, it's called human nature....a woman with opportunities, baby or not, can improve her situation....a woman without opportunities, baby or not, is stuck right where she is.....when the system encourages personal responsibility, personal growth, the amazing thing is that we find responsible growing succesful people....
How? How is providing greater equality for people by making education, healthcare, support accessible to everyone only going to help the middle-classes?
one question at a time....let's take education, it is a growing problem....as we become more and more socialist, higher education becomes easier to acquire...more and more kids getting education, should result in more and more kids getting good paying jobs right....wrong, the good jobs still go to the kids with connections but now, the poor kids have lost the money they spent on education even if only for food while in school, they have lost years where they could have been working, and to top it off, they still don't have a good paying job because they don't have the connections. Want evidence, look at the statistics for college educated people on welfare, the number is growing pretty rapidly...so how is socialism going to break all the connections in our lives so that everyone has the same chance? How are you going to change the fact that the school super has a son who is graduating, or the Ford CEO promised his nephew a job when he finished school? If you want equality, find a way to stop President Obama's children from having more job connections offered to them than my kids will have offered to them.....point is this, life isn't fair, it's a fact....changing who has the money won't stop life from being unfair, people will, that is why putting power in the hands of people as free market does is a superior plan to capitalism or socialism either one where the power is solely on those with wealth.....Oh, don't forget to notice who in the government is poor and who is rich, can't even get a power position in the government without being rich.....government job sure, government power, not without large sums of money.
Starting your own business still needs some money, and not everyone is cut out to run their own business.
right, and both capitalism and socialism force the entrepenuer to have more money to get something started than free market does....so free market creates more opportunity....have you ever talked to a poor person? They don't want a hand out, they want a chance to make it for themselves, it's a human nature things, people want to succeed.
I couldn't, I'm sure. You seem to be under the impression that free market economics makes everyone into the next Alan Sugar. Problems at your workplace?
actually what I am saying is that under free market everyone has a chance to make it, if you lack the incentive, the stamina, the creativity, etc. that isn't anyones problem but yours, a problem you created by not being motivated enough to do something about it. If you want to take the power away from the money, free market is the way to go, because the power is on each and every individual not on the wealth they do or don't have, it's on their merit and God's grace.
Well start your own business and beat them at their own game though your hard work. While I'm sure that there are some people who can and have done this, you will not protect everyone doing this.
actually both capitalism and socialism make starting your own business a very difficult thing....I have friends around the world, let me compare two different realities to make my point.....here in the states, we are attempting to start our own business, we sacrifice, work hard, etc. and still, the socialist city we live in comes along and after the federal government, state government, and city government already makes it very difficult and more expensive to start that business, the socialist city comes along and all but closes our business down because they didn't like that we had to load a vehicle for deliveries during a week day....(true story) another true story, we have some friends from another country, they know people who are trying to start businesses to survive (which btw is our motivation) they fix meals in their kitchen then go out on the streets at lunch time and sell to the office workers on lunch break, their business is thriving and they soon will be moving up in class status, no government hassels, no government taxes and fees, just people using thier natural resources to better themselves....Which is offering equality and which requires power to be governed by money?
And so what happens to the people who are failed?

don't understand your question, please explain.
Goverment training, loans and disablility benefits are all socialist ideas. Without the government providing these things, he'd have had to have turned to charity. Hoped someone in a business whould be willing to give him a try, or a bank was willing to offer him some capital. With a free market, business are just as able to choose their clients as their clients are to choose them. If they did not want to risk lending money to your father, there would be no obligation for them to support him. Nor would their be any obligation for companies to treat disabled workers equally.
and yet, there were offers from the private sector as well, but because he could be a spoiled rich kid so to speak, he contributes nothing and takes much....so how have you leveled the playing field? how have you bettered his life?
There is always a risk with welfare programs that people are going to take advantage of it, but there is that risk in any system. There will always be people who want to play to their advantage. They do need to be policed. But is it better that someone sits on the ass in front of the tv all day so that anyone, no matter what their situation has the same access and opertunities? I think so. That welfare programs have been or are badly run is not an argument against welfare programs, it's an argument against those welfare programs.
actually, the playing field is no more even and in fact, it is less even under socialism and this whole post shows why and how, so I don't feel a need to repeat everything already stated.