Thunder Peel
You don't eat a peacock until it's cooked.
What positive action are you taking to change things if you don't like them? Success is never a certainty in life, but if you're not doing anything then why complain. By doing something I don't mean spending hours on dating sites or whatever. But real concrete action to get what you need if you want to get married. Are you in school working hard to make sure you get that really good job? Are you in the gym regularly and making sure you eat right? Because really, if you have a good job and are in decent physical condition it's unlikely you wouldn't be able to find someone to marry. If you don't have those things then it's unlikely you will find someone to marry you. If you don't want to do the work it takes get those things then you really can't find being single that bad.
When I got my discharge I spent a good eight or nine months being bitter that the uniform groupies weren't there anymore. Then it dawned on me: I'm in my late 20's, live with my parents, and work at Jiffy Lube. Not exactly a real wonder why I very rarely get dates and those never turn into anything. But the other reality is that I'm obviously not that heart broken about being the dateless wonder otherwise I'd be doing something to change it.
I agree with this to an extent but just because you have money, a great job, and a place of your own doesn't automatically get you a date. Plenty of people have those things and are still single while others have less education or a low-paying job and manage to find love. There's nothing wrong with working to better your life but if it were as easy as simply filling out a checklist I think most of us would be much further along by now. Success in the working world or good health doesn't mean love will be any easier or more plentiful.
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