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When I came to Christian Forums I was happy and full of faith and hope. Now I am at a loss and feel there is no hope. So what should I do? Just no longer come to the forums?
There are a lot of really disappointing, foolish people here....nothing you can really do about it. I'll be praying for you, but in the meantime, just challenge yourself- do you NEED to be here?
 
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There are a lot of really disappointing, foolish people here....nothing you can really do about it. I'll be praying for you, but in the meantime, just challenge yourself- do you NEED to be here?
Thank you very much for sharing
 
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When I came to Christian Forums I was happy and full of faith and hope. Now I am at a loss and feel there is no hope. So what should I do? Just no longer come to the forums?
Why did you come to the forums? The reasons for travelling here could have been part of the reason - expectations that weren't met. Who were you trying to engage with and did you manage it?
 
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Why did you come to the forums? The reasons for travelling here could have been part of the reason - expectations that weren't met. Who were you trying to engage with and did you manage it?
I was just trying to fellowship, however got caught up in debate. Thank you for reply.
 
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When I came to Christian Forums I was happy and full of faith and hope. Now I am at a loss and feel there is no hope. So what should I do? Just no longer come to the forums?

The IGNORE button is a beautiful feature. Use it with glee, occasionally checking your PEOPLE YOU IGNORE list to see how long it gets (this will shock you). When you want to read the missing comments from a thread--because the PEOPLE YOU IGNORE are G - O - N - E :wave:, yet still posting to others that you like to read--simply click on SHOW IGNORED CONTENT at the bottom of the thread. You'll see all the usual PEOPLE YOU IGNORE again, saying all the same things that led you to IGNORE them in the first place. Once you move to the next page or another thread, POOF! they're gone again.

The cool thing about all this is that what I've described above works for every single person who visits this forum. Everyone's experience here can be enhanced by using the IGNORE feature.

Beauty. Thank you, CF!

To listen...to IGNORE..."I've looked at life from both sides now..."
 
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The IGNORE button is a beautiful feature. Use it with glee, occasionally checking your PEOPLE YOU IGNORE list to see how long it gets (this will shock you). When you want to read the missing comments from a thread--because the PEOPLE YOU IGNORE are G - O - N - E :wave:, yet still posting to others that you like to read--simply click on SHOW IGNORED CONTENT at the bottom of the thread. You'll see all the usual PEOPLE YOU IGNORE again, saying all the same things that led you to IGNORE them in the first place. Once you move to the next page or another thread, POOF! they're gone again.

The cool thing about all this is that what I've described above works for every single person who visits this forum. Everyone's experience here can be enhanced by using the IGNORE feature.

Beauty. Thank you, CF!

To listen...to IGNORE..."I've looked at life from both sides now..."
Thank you. Good advice. Thank you for sharing.
 
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I was just trying to fellowship, however got caught up in debate. Thank you for reply.
Yeah, I can imagine that. I think the debating is the biggest thing here. Perhaps if you got things going it might start something, but I think on the whole people prefer face to face or even (under lockdown) video fellowship.

A good church is the best place to find fellowship. Not online.

On the other hand, finding a good church may be a problem in itself.... I'll pray for you.
 
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Yeah, I can imagine that. I think the debating is the biggest thing here. Perhaps if you got things going it might start something, but I think on the whole people prefer face to face or even (under lockdown) video fellowship.

A good church is the best place to find fellowship. Not online.

On the other hand, finding a good church may be a problem in itself.... I'll pray for you.
Thank you very much. I need to work on my people skills. God bless. Thanks for replying.
 
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When I came to Christian Forums I was happy and full of faith and hope. Now I am at a loss and feel there is no hope. So what should I do? Just no longer come to the forums?
I have to take breaks often. A lot of times, it doesn't help me. Sometimes it does. I'm mostly away now.

It's ok to take breaks, and try again in a week. Or, just choose to avoid actual debate. That might help, too.
 
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When I came to Christian Forums I was happy and full of faith and hope. Now I am at a loss and feel there is no hope. So what should I do? Just no longer come to the forums?
What happened at this blog to turn you away? Perhaps staying away from things that don’t follow God’s Word to dwell on those things that are of a good report. I must go back to The Word regularly in Philippians 4:8.
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  1. [8] Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
 
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What happened at this blog to turn you away? Perhaps staying away from things that don’t follow God’s Word to dwell on those things that are of a good report. I must go back to The Word regularly in Philippians 4:8.
Phil.4
  1. [8] Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
I stay focused in the Lord. Thank you for sharing.
 
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I have to take breaks often. A lot of times, it doesn't help me. Sometimes it does. I'm mostly away now.

It's ok to take breaks, and try again in a week. Or, just choose to avoid actual debate. That might help, too.
That might be a good idea. Thank you for sharing.
 
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Not posting 500 times over a period of just 7 days might be a good place to start. That's an average of over 70 times per day. Hard to achieve a balanced forum experience that way.
Is that how many times I posted? Thank you for sharing. That does seem like a lot.
 
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Is that how many times I posted? Thank you for sharing. That does seem like a lot.
Don’t worry about it. Post as much as you want. That’s what the place is here for.
 
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Is that how many times I posted? Thank you for sharing. That does seem like a lot.
Anyone can see anyone's history in the search tool.
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