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Slim pickin's

ElElena

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It's actually a very upbeat song. And I like it b/c it reminds me that I will fall in love again someday. :)

The power of positives..... God is a yes and amen kind of God.

We do not know what the future holds but HE DOES HAVE GOOD PLANS FOR US.
 
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"For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans for a hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

My divorce atty was the person that pointed me to that scripture. It's my favorite.

God allows certain people to home in [so to speak] on certain passages at certain times. I shared that one tonight. I believe God was leading and I like that one a lot, too.

He really does have good plans for us.

I sincerely believe we can choose to miss out on his blessed good plans for us if we choose our own way of doing things instead of doing things His way though. He gives us freedom to choose, right?
 
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Just Come in - Margaret Becker

What do I see
You draggin up here
Is that for your atoning?
I know you're sorry
I've seen your tears
You don't have to show Me
What makes you think you must
Make that go away
I forgot
When I forgave
I wish you would

Chorus
Just come in
Just leave that right there
Love does not care
Just come in
Lay your heart right here
You should never fear

You think you've crossed
Some sacred line
And now I will ignore you
If you look up
You will find
My heart is still toward you
Look at the sky
The east to the west
That's where I threw this
When you first confessed
Let it go now

Chorus

I will forgive you
No matter what you've done
No matter how many times
You turn and run
I love you
I wish you'd come

Chorus

Wow it's been so long since I heard this song, but your last post made me think of it immediately. As I started going over the lyrics in my head, tears flowed as I realized the awesome mercy of God, the tenderness in which in He calls us to leave our past behind to fellowship with Him.
 
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Wow it's been so long since I heard this song, but your last post made me think of it immediately. As I started going over the lyrics in my head, tears flowed as I realized the awesome mercy of God, the tenderness in which in He calls us to leave our past behind to fellowship with Him.
Isn't God wonderful...it's amazing when we realize that there are times we are soooo much harder on ourselves than God is on us....

He loves us and when we ask for forgiveness He gives it to us...and then He casts our sin into the sea of forgetfulness...

But then we keep punishing ourselves...we keep going over things we've done in the past and condeming ourselves for it...we forget that condemnation is NOT from the Lord - it is from the enemy and yet we allow it to become a part of our lives when all the Lord wants us to do is look to Him and to His grace and mercy and forgiveness...

We need to stop punishing ourselves for things that the Lord has already forgotten
 
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D & AFT, I enjoyed the things you both shared.

The words to that song were well written.

It was nice to see that this morning.

I have to get going soon and may get to be online later this evening. See you all then, Lord willing.

I thank God for CF and sweet people like all of you.

P.S. The emails are still coming to my outlook express.
 
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Wow it's been so long since I heard this song, but your last post made me think of it immediately. As I started going over the lyrics in my head, tears flowed as I realized the awesome mercy of God, the tenderness in which in He calls us to leave our past behind to fellowship with Him.

That is a beautiful song...I've never heard it. It's so true. It's been a very difficult journey for me to move forward and believe that just because my marriage failed doesn't mean that I'm a failure. It doesn't mean that I am not capable of loving and being loved - of being IN LOVE again. I just have to keep reminding myself that the past made me who I am and has hopefully made me a better person and furthered me in my journey with Him.

Ironically - one of the first things I did when I filed for divorce was pray for forgiveness. It went against everything I believe to walk away from my marriage.

And the tears are good. They cleanse us and heal us. There are all these milestones that you encounter after divorce and I have found that releasing the emotions that they evoke and allowing God to restore me has been the most amazing process.
 
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We are all human and ALL do things that aren't what God would want for us, but we need to remember he works ALL things together for good to those that love the Lord. Even through divorce. God cares more about your heart, and your heart toward HIM, than any of the sins he already knows we will commit.

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She dodged because the truth invalidated her statement. That is all.
Hey I forgot the topic of this thread. Oh yeah, Slim Pickin's or shucks why did the men finally wise up and not want to play the game any more.

If she was "dodging" the truth as you say, she wouldn't have even responded. It doesn't invalidate how she feels. Do you have a caring bone in your body, or do you just like to upset people that are already hurting?

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Oh yeah, Slim Pickin's or shucks why did the men finally wise up and not want to play the game any more.

Ok...so could you PLEASE do us all a big favor and stop playing this game!!!

Thanks! :wave:
 
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Ok...so could you PLEASE do us all a big favor and stop playing this game!!!

Thanks! :wave:

I agree! That's the best thing I've heard all day. How about this? If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all:p

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She dodged because the truth invalidated her statement. That is all.
Hey I forgot the topic of this thread. Oh yeah, Slim Pickin's or shucks why did the men finally wise up and not want to play the game any more.
Wow - that comment and your signature are pretty antagonistic, IMO.

I'm going to ask that you stop posting in this thread or I will report it as harrassment.
 
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Wow - that comment and your signature are pretty antagonistic, IMO.

I'm going to ask that you stop posting in this thread or I will report it as harrassment.

I was wondering when someone else would see that this may need reported.

Good for you!!!
 
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