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I don't have a problem with this, but in most cases women, I guess, feel like they'd need a stronger, wiser, more mature man to be with...I feels more natural to eventually submit to an older man. I guess right now you're just too mature for girls younger than you.

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I don't have a problem with this, but in most cases women, I guess, feel like they'd need a stronger, wiser, more mature man to be with...I feels more natural to eventually submit to an older man. I guess right now you're just too mature for girls younger than you.

My Dad is 12 years younger than my mom :p

He married her when he was 21, and my Mom was 33 ^_^
 
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Well, I have a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]load of problems with girls...
Or.. the problem is that i don't really have it,

I could almost pick any girl in my surrounding. It's aint funny girls always flirt with me but the huge problem is i can't handle the temptation...
So there for do I avoid getting to close with girls cuz I know that i would probably just seduce or realize i really didn't like them and then regret it, (because i know it's wrong) brake-up and hurt them.

It's a part of my old life that just catches up with me.
Pray for me pl0x :)
 
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Well, I have a [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]load of problems with girls...
Or.. the problem is that i don't really have it,

I could almost pick any girl in my surrounding. It's aint funny girls always flirt with me but the huge problem is i can't handle the temptation...
So there for do I avoid getting to close with girls cuz I know that i would probably just seduce or realize i really didn't like them and then regret it, (because i know it's wrong) brake-up and hurt them.

It's a part of my old life that just catches up with me.
Pray for me pl0x :)

That's like the complete opposite of me ^_^, if I like a girl I get incredibly nervous and shy.

I suspect being kissed by a girl I have a crush on could be fatal. :doh:

Anyway God bless you
 
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That's like the complete opposite of me ^_^, if I like a girl I get incredibly nervous and shy.

I suspect being kissed by a girl I have a crush on could be fatal. :doh:

Anyway God bless you

Well... it's a curse,
The closer i get to God, the harder it gets... devil knows how to play me out, but lucky for he's a loser and i'm a winner in Gods kingdom ;)
 
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Well good luck there :thumbsup:

Things are not going so well. Apparently, he lives with his ex :confused:

Well goodness, I seem to have the best luck with guys.

Over the last 6 months, the first guy is a player, the second guy is obsessive and controlling, and the third one lives with his ex. Lovely.
 
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I am just laying back waiting till college to find a girl again....as far as this school year...I just need a prom date...lol
I'm agreeing. I find dating in high school a little ridiculous. No bashing on the people who do date! I hope God blesses you guys! But for me, its too much of an area for temptation. Sex, drugs, trying to be cool, making relationships your new god. Its too much for my teeny tiny brain to manage right now, and I would rather have my main focus be an student right now. Its how I feel, and I embrace people on both sides of the spectrum. Go in God! Remember, your ministry field is right out your door!
 
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Things are not going so well. Apparently, he lives with his ex :confused:

Well goodness, I seem to have the best luck with guys.

Over the last 6 months, the first guy is a player, the second guy is obsessive and controlling, and the third one lives with his ex. Lovely.

hehe ^_^

Sorry Kitty, I couldn't help but laugh a little.

Maybe this is God's way of telling it isn't the right time to date.
 
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hehe ^_^

Sorry Kitty, I couldn't help but laugh a little.

Maybe this is God's way of telling it isn't the right time to date.

Haha I laughed a bit when I reread what I wrote. No offense is taken. ^_^

I wish God would change his mind lol.
 
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Haha I laughed a bit when I reread what I wrote. No offense is taken. ^_^

I wish God would change his mind lol.

Well, i think that 15 is a young age for serious dating, but if you feel ready, go for it... it could only prove the opposite :)
 
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Well, i think that 15 is a young age for serious dating, but if you feel ready, go for it... it could only prove the opposite :)

Yeah I've always dreamed of dating a guy in highschool and then marrying him. :blush:
 
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I'm agreeing. I find dating in high school a little ridiculous. No bashing on the people who do date! I hope God blesses you guys! But for me, its too much of an area for temptation. Sex, drugs, trying to be cool, making relationships your new god. Its too much for my teeny tiny brain to manage right now, and I would rather have my main focus be an student right now. Its how I feel, and I embrace people on both sides of the spectrum. Go in God! Remember, your ministry field is right out your door!


Amen bro, that is exactly how I feel too.
 
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Good that you want to dating the opposite gender :p would be bad if you didn't :]

hehe, yeah. But you do realise I was joking? ;)

I think about girls probably more than I should, but I've had my heart broken so often, I just don't want to try this again ^_^

I don't even feel like talking to people anymore. Talk is starting to feel really cheap to me, people talk and talk but it makes no difference. Talk doesn't take pain away or memories, nor does it make me feel any less angry inside. :yum:
 
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