Singles Bar

[Stjernkvist]

Well thank you for the support, if I ever go to Sweden i'll keep that in mind.

The thing is, that in Holland if you can't speak the language correctly then you'll always be a fifth wheel. You might be in a group, but you'll never be apart of the group. Serving as an example, I play rugby, but sometimes I mis-understand the coach due to the language barrier, the people around me do their best to help me, rather like one would help a child. You help him, but that doesn't make him your equal. This becomes evident in the interactions, you can tell that they try not to speak to me, as it is too much work.

Playing rugby is really my only activity where I feel semi-apart of a group. But this illusion lasts only as long as the pratice.

I'm also just nervious that if I liked a girl here, that she wouldn't give me the time of day because my dutch is weak.

Sometimes I miss England, but i've been here for nine years so this is really all I know.

I must be really hard to not know the language so good. and Dutch is a really.. special language.

I hope the talking part will sort out some how.

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

Same here

 

[Stjernkvist]

Same here

But, hey ever thinking of visiting Sweden, post me and tell

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

But, hey ever thinking of visiting Sweden, post me and tell

Sure, ok

 

[0x87a]

=)

 

[SiXe]

This bar needs to get moving again

FREE DRINK FOR POSTS

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

CHicken! :B

 

[Comatose]

: )

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

I think i'm going to grow my hair longer and go to a hair-dresser and have my hair-done into dreadlocks.

"It was said that the wearer lived a "dread" life or a life in which he feared God, which gave birth to the modern name 'dreadlocks' for this ancient style"

My mother thinks it is a good idea and she even said she would pay for it to be done. My sister thinks it will be cool. My Dad probably hates the idea, but he doesn't have to walk around with dreadocks.

 

[Kixa]

I think i'm going to grow my hair longer and go to a hair-dresser and have my hair-done into dreadlocks.

"It was said that the wearer lived a "dread" life or a life in which he feared God, which gave birth to the modern name 'dreadlocks' for this ancient style"

My mother thinks it is a good idea and she even said she would pay for it to be done. My sister thinks it will be cool. My Dad probably hates the idea, but he doesn't have to walk around with dreadocks.

I think you should go for it! And if you don't like them you could just get a haircut. It's a good way to show your style without getting a tatoo or something.

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

I think you should go for it! And if you don't like them you could just get a haircut. It's a good way to show your style without getting a tatoo or something.

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Yeah, I normally have impossible hair. This will allow me to have a cool hair cut, and if I maintain it well it won’t look too bad [/FONT]

 

[Comatose]

Hair? Hair.. I have terrible hair.. Ugh..

 

[Unfit'for'swine]

Woof, this is like my fifth heartbreak, and it is getting easier xD

My theory, if you break your heart regularly and often enough that the pieces loose their sharp edges and you can laugh about it sooner. =D

 

[Comatose]

Yeah, I guess you may be right!

 

[jaimejesus]

Hi I'm a whippersnapper here compared to you guys. Just don't tell the bouncer I'm underage.

I'll have a Cuba libre, virgin.

 

[Comatose]

Hmm.. I don't know about giving you drinks.. lol..

 

[Bauman1535]

Hey everyone, I too am single (what a surprise!). I was dating this girl for two years, and she finally joined me at college a little over a month ago. From the second she got on campus, I could tell something was different. Long story short, she chose alcohol over me, and when she cheated on me when drunk one night, that was the line. So I've been working on getting over that.

I do like this girl, even though she's a decent bit younger than me (I'm 19...she's 16 or 17). I don't know why, I just like everything about her. The problem is I can't get her to see how great a guy I can be...I know if she could, she'd probably like me back. Well that's pretty much my story lol.

 

[Comatose]

Dude.. sounds bad about that cheating girl..

Younger girl? Be careful dude! All I'm gunna say!

What do you want to drink?

 

[DMMullinax]

Hey everyone, I too am single (what a surprise!). I was dating this girl for two years, and she finally joined me at college a little over a month ago. From the second she got on campus, I could tell something was different. Long story short, she chose alcohol over me, and when she cheated on me when drunk one night, that was the line. So I've been working on getting over that.

I do like this girl, even though she's a decent bit younger than me (I'm 19...she's 16 or 17). I don't know why, I just like everything about her. The problem is I can't get her to see how great a guy I can be...I know if she could, she'd probably like me back. Well that's pretty much my story lol.

Sorry to hear that :/ I'm sure letting go won't be easy at all. But you'll make it through, and God will place you with someone better in time There's always, always, always comfort in that.

 

[Bauman1535]

Dude.. sounds bad about that cheating girl..

Younger girl? Be careful dude! All I'm gunna say!

What do you want to drink?

I'd be fine with the younger girl. She's mature for her age, and I'm good with getting adults to like me (i.e. her parents). I mean, obviously nothing sexual will happen at all since we're both believers, but it's always better to have the parents liking you.

For the drink - do you have lemon lime Gatorade mixed with Red Bull? It's quite a delicious combination...

Sorry to hear that :/ I'm sure letting go won't be easy at all. But you'll make it through, and God will place you with someone better in time

There's always, always, always comfort in that.

Thanks for the support. Every day that goes by, I realize more and more that God didn't want me with her and this is all a part of His plan. Now I'm just hoping this new girl I like IS a part of His plan lol.