Single and successful

[timewerx]

Haha I definitely share wealth with those in need, within my family, any employees going through hard times, my brothers non profit that he just started, but mostly through teaching others to fish, instead of just giving them one.

It looks like you already got what you wanted if sharing your success with your own family is your goal.

That's already family right there. You're simply not seeing it.

 

[timewerx]

I am not afraid of girls or anything, but just not willing to be vulnerable with people.

Perhaps, I hasn't caught your attention earlier but this is huge problem man. You really should drop that attitude and change.

You can't be a good BF or husband with such attitude unless you have enough money to make up for it. But ofc, a relationship based on money is always bound to be bad.

 

[sundewgrower]

Perhaps, I hasn't caught your attention earlier but this is huge problem man. You really should drop that attitude and change.

You can't be a good BF or husband with such attitude unless you have enough money to make up for it. But ofc, a relationship based on money is always bound to be bad.

Gotta trust and be open. My fiance has my credit card with a $10K limit with her as a coaccount. She'll be with me on a joint account with my few K of savings, and that's how it is... I trust she won't waste money and will be responsible

 

[timewerx]

Gotta trust and be open. My fiance has my credit card with a $10K limit with her as a coaccount. She'll be with me on a joint account with my few K of savings, and that's how it is... I trust she won't waste money and will be responsible

Apparently, you are very trusting of people!

I am voicing my concern about the OP because I used to have a close friend, and probably my best friend at that time who had the same sentiment about the OP regarding avoiding being vulnerable with people.

That close friend of mine divorced very soon, two kids on two different women and currently single...

He isn't a player, apparently, he always told me he wanted to settle down, he did manage to stick with one woman for at least a year. But he leaves them anyway because he could not compromise. Hates being in a vulnerable position in any way. Always has to be his way.

The women on the other hand, ends up frustrated and stressed out by the relationship. He stuck up with me because he thought I'm easy and quite uncomplicated....Is it or am I simply acting