I have done respite for these boys for seven years and love them dearly. Their single adoptive mother divorced from their 'Dad' who has a drug habit and is a closet homosexual before they could adopt them together (were his son's children). They see him once a week. She has no living parents, and just one brother whose young son has engaged in sexual behaviour with them and no action taken. So she wants them to be safe and raised in a Christian home. She has modest life insurance part to raise, part for university, and also offered to leave me her house.
I am 38 and single, no relationship, and I've been working temporary work off and on for some time to try to tie up some loose ends and move on with more of a vocational life and what God wants from me.
Is there a way of creating a will such that I would be responsible to find them a good home but not necessarily providing it? Any other ways to think out of the box? Are there ways it may make sense to go through the foster system (but with a known person)?
I am tempted to ask her if she has thought of anyone else from the church I attend that she also used to go to; one family in particular used to foster children for several years and they had even stayed with them for a couple weeks when her then-husband kicked her out of the house. She is not close enough yet to anyone in her current church and realizes she may have asked them prematurely.
Anyone else been in this situation of trying to find a suitable guardian or being asked to be one in a tricky situation? I can use prayer and perspectives, I don't feel close enough to God to find His direction. I just want to do do my due diligence before I agree. I am on my third mother (same dad) myself due to death. Lord increase my faith!
I am 38 and single, no relationship, and I've been working temporary work off and on for some time to try to tie up some loose ends and move on with more of a vocational life and what God wants from me.
Is there a way of creating a will such that I would be responsible to find them a good home but not necessarily providing it? Any other ways to think out of the box? Are there ways it may make sense to go through the foster system (but with a known person)?
I am tempted to ask her if she has thought of anyone else from the church I attend that she also used to go to; one family in particular used to foster children for several years and they had even stayed with them for a couple weeks when her then-husband kicked her out of the house. She is not close enough yet to anyone in her current church and realizes she may have asked them prematurely.
Anyone else been in this situation of trying to find a suitable guardian or being asked to be one in a tricky situation? I can use prayer and perspectives, I don't feel close enough to God to find His direction. I just want to do do my due diligence before I agree. I am on my third mother (same dad) myself due to death. Lord increase my faith!
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