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High Fidelity

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Take the time now to be 'selfish'. Do all the things you want to do that you'd otherwise need to run by a partner. If you haven't already, meditate in the weeks to come on who/what you want to be and start laying foundations and working towards that. It's a lot easier to do when single.

Being single is awesome. Don't wish it away too fast. Of course being in a relationship is awesome too, but don't give up the guarantee of today for the promise of tomorrow. You're here now, single or otherwise, enjoy it, live presently and whatever happens tomorrow, if it comes, happens.
 
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Broken Fence

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48 and feel the same way, not sure how I have gotten here.
 
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Don't worry about love when you stop itll find you.

Thats what happened to me. I was adamant about being single then my now boyfriend approached me and wouldn't let up until I took his number. Lol

Its been a month now and I'm glad In with him.
 
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Ronit

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48 and feel the same way, not sure how I have gotten here.
It's ok. You never know who God may match you up with?
Even in troubled times. Which I have a hard time believing, but things like that have happened before.
 
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Broken Fence

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It's ok. You never know who God may match you up with?
Even in troubled times. Which I have a hard time believing, but things like that have happened before.
That is true. God is really amazing like that. He has promised me great things which I know not of. Going to be really interesting to watch Him accomplish such miracles.
 
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I'm totally doing that.

And, get involved in a ministry that you feel God has led you to work in. This life is a gift, but it also a life of service and worship to God. When we are in God's will in service, lots of other things fall into place too.
 
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And, get involved in a ministry that you feel God has led you to work in. This life is a gift, but it also a life of service and worship to God. When we are in God's will in service, lots of other things fall into place too.
Nice Doggie. I love Dogs
 
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