You want some new mods then ask the people you want to be mods to apply when the apps reopen.
As far as the second point, having someplace to talk is more convenient than IM all the time. We don't make any decisions anywhere that are not also in the reports fully. Almost every staff member talks to each other about CF stuff on IM, google chat, some on the telephone and other means. There is nothing nefarious about that...especially when CF used to have such a habit of crashing. You know the nefarious things I talk to other staff about off site (be it somewhere else, IM, Google chat): Prayer requests that may be a bit to sensitive for open forums (like a health situation or death you can not share in public yet because you don't want a loved one to see it on a message board first), staying in contact during upgrades, asking for feedback from the other mods on how I am doing, general worries and notices about computer trouble or leave of absences that I like to have collected for my reference rather than spread across time and space. It's the same thing people use IM and MSN for, real time staff discussions, brainstorming and such.
When I was an admin in theology my co-admin and I would talk twice a day on MSN messenger about division of duties, what was up and problem issues. I did not then copy transcripts onto CF because anything relevant was always repeated in a decision...usually about 15 times before it was all said and done. The same thing with any other off site discussion I have be it a message program, other site, phone (never done that), PM, email or any other type of discussion.
As far as getting unbiased people if you think other mods would allow the language and such that goes on around OBOB...be my guest to try it anywhere else on the forum. Seriously, see how long it lasts. You think we are biased...give it a whirl.
You know you really know how to kick people in the teeth for trying.