topher694
Go Turtle!
- Jan 29, 2019
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Keep going to church. If we all waited until everything was perfect to go to church, the churches would all be empty. Talk with your pastor about your situation and listen to his advice. As a pastor myself, I would prefer you both go to church so you can be encouraged and grow so that your marriage will start off strong. And of course, since you are not married yet, make sure you are handling your relationship appropriately.I am with a woman since December 2012 now and we're not married because when I met her, she was not divorced yet.
She came out from an abuse marriage. That's the reason she's not with her husband anymore.
But my intention is to marry her when the divorce is finalized.
Now, I started to go to church recently, and wonder if I should stop going to church until I finally marry her or if it is okay for me to go still?
What do you think?
That being said, if you are going to a place where the leadership is condemning your situation, I would strongly consider finding another place. (note: condemnation is different than critical advice)
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