savvy said:
First of all, Harry has been abused by his family, of course he considers his friends more important, because they are the only people who have ever been kind to him.
But what does that say to children who think their parents are being cruel? If a kid gets the bedroom he doesn't like while his sister gets the best, he'll be thinking of Harry Potter sitting in the cupboard under the stairs.
When a child is told to be quiet, he'll think of Harry Potter being wisked upstairs so that the Dursleys didn't have to deal with him or the shame of having him.
When a child is told he can't go to a certain school or do certain things, they'll compare themselves to Harry Potter, being oppressed by the horrid Dursleys.
I've actually heard people say things like that. "I know where Rowling got the idea for the Dursleys", "Her characters are really true, especially the Dursleys".
It gets annoying, actually.
He doesn't trust adults, so he feels compelled to do things his way.
Albus Dumbledore, Snape (sort of), Sirius Black (after a bit, that is), the Weasley's, and other teachers.
Many times, this leads to terrible consequences when he refuses to ask for help or sidesteps rules, so I don't think the books are trying to encourage rebellion.
Then why is it that when Harry broke the rules of the Hogwarts he saved the Sorceror's Stone and defeated Voldemort in the second of many glorious battles?
Why is it that every time Harry Potter succeeds it's either because the school set him up (Quidditch), or he disobeyed a teacher?
Secondly, Wicca doesn't seem to have many set rules like other religions. Some Wiccans will say one thing, some say another. I have known many Wiccan people, including a guy who's a high priest and has been Wiccan for some twenty years, who tells me HP is nothing but a fairy tale. So there really is no way to know if JK was influenced or not (but I personally believe not).
Well, that's all fine and well. As I've said before, it's really up to how you interpret Wicca. But the Wiccan Rede (trede, crede, whatever you want to call it) is all the same. Just a few simple rules, like respect life and things like that, that are highly emphasized in Harry Potter.