Shocking

[tclancy]

I was married and my husband cheated on me with my sister. Unfortunately that played a part in our divorce. I don't have a relationship with my sisiter anymore but my ex and I have a 10yr old daughter together. We have been divorced for some time now. I recently found out that they are in a relationship and plan to be married. I am devestated. I don't allow my daughter to be around my sister because I feel she is a bad influence on her. My ex has gone behind my back and taken her around my sister anyway and had my daughter lying to me. The worst art is that they approached my daughter with this behind my back also and had the nerve to ask her if she was okay with it. I would of never thought my sister would be capable of such an act of betrayal. It is against everything I know! Now I'm afraid because of the way that I feel that my daughter will not be able to be around her dad either. HELP

 

[Linus]

Welcome to CF!

That is truly despicable!

Praying for you and your daughter in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank You Lord!

 

[Tigger45]

Wow yes that is a double betrayal first from your ex and then your sister and not they have to involve your daughter?! Praying for you sister.

 

[hypostatic]

Praying!

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

Welcome to CF
Praying direction and healing in your family ~ God bless you

 

[brinny]

Praying that God intervenes as only He can and protects your daughter in all of this and grants you extraordinary wisdom, discernment, and clarity. Father may it be so, in jEsus name, amen.

 

[TriumphInTruth]

I know this isn't what you want to hear after all you are going through but, you are going to have to forgive. It's the only way. Praying for you.

 

[SplendidTree]

Oh my goodness I am so sorry. Praying for you all now.

 

[paul1149]

First I want to affirm that that is a shocking betrayal. And to have to drag the child into it and harm her conscience is the proof of the pudding that it's not right. I have been through family betrayal, and the worst part of it was not getting affirmation from other family members. They preferred to cover it up in order to maintain the status quo. So you have my affirmation. While it's essential to forgive, a prerequisite to real forgiveness is to acknowledge the reality of the offense.

I pray for comfort and wisdom for you, and protection for both you and your daughter. May the Lord quicken to you the right way to approach and deal with this situation and everyone involved in it.

"A man's enemies will even be of his own household."

 

[singpeace]

It is not an enemy who taunts me—I could bear that. It is not my foes who so arrogantly insult me—I could have hidden from them. Instead, it is you—my equal, my companion and close friend. What good fellowship we once enjoyed as we walked together to the house of God. . . . [now] evil makes its home within them." Psalm 55:12-15 (NLT)

Father God, please precious Father be with my sister now in her time of great need and distress. Please step in and do whatever is necessary to protect this precious child from this terrible situation. Give my sister strength, wisdom, discernment, courage, and Lord, give her a great many people to stand with her ... be her Protector and her Friend. Be her ever-present Help in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[AnthonyMichaelPraisesGod]

Lord i thank You for these people that i have never met and that i have no business offering advice of any kind and i praise You for Your glorious guiding hand in this matter, in the name of Jesus i pray forgiveness over all parties involved and pray for Your sweet mercy in the lives of these women and man and children, Lord, be with them and guide them in Your merciful healing, O Magnificent Lord and let us know that Your steadfast love never fails, Lord, amen and hallelujah. <3